Chapter 384 (1/2)
If people accuse the poor second generation of being unfilial for their unwillingness to support their elderly parents, will it be fair for the poor second generation to give birth to their offspring on the premise that they can not guarantee the quality of life of their offspring?
I also hope that all of you who have not received much love from your parents can give more love and care to your next generation in the future, so that they will not suffer from pain and fear in their childhood. Let them not grow so hard in the future.
Especially for the elderly who are bedridden for a long time, it is possible for them to get sores or rot. These old people's old age is very miserable and painful.
However, their children are not happy either. They drop out of high school at the age of 16 or 17 and go to the remote city from the village to seek a living. They rent a small and broken house and do a job that requires no skill but hard work. The job is not stable. You may have to change places, jobs and houses every so often.
When you change your job, please the people around you carefully and try hard to integrate into the environment. When looking for a house, he was reluctant to call a car and carried big and small bags. When I dream back at midnight, I can't find my way home in a city without relatives.
Is it not sad for such an empty nest youth? There is always a lot of suffering in the world.
Then Hannah wants to ask, can we blame our parents for the misfortune of the empty nest youth? All things grow in balance, and the cycle of cause and effect is not bad at all.
Hannah doesn't want to say whether all the empty nesters have committed crimes against their children. I don't want to investigate whether their children are really cruel and cold-blooded.
After all, everyone has his own destiny. There are no young or old on the way to the yellow spring. Old people are not the only ones with empty nests and sadness. The world is cold and cruel. Who hasn't suffered a lot.
In feudal society, there were many cases of selling sons and daughters, changing sons and eating, and adults dying of starvation. They wanted to know how the old people died with their toes. Happy old age does not exist.
Take Laohuang village as an example. A few of them were seriously ill and their children died without treatment. A few of them got sick and could be cured, but they had to spend money. Their children were reluctant to spend money and died. One of them was a special pity. It only took tens of thousands of yuan to cure him, but his son was reluctant to spend money and died
The countryside is relatively backward, both in economy and ideology. Later, the rural girls who have a little cultural foundation want to fly out, and they do not want to develop themselves and future generations in such backward environment, so there are fewer girls left in the countryside.
What about the girls out there? It is even more impossible to marry in the countryside. Of course, there should be treasure girls who yearn for pastoral life, but I said, this will not exceed one in ten thousand! Girls who grow up in the city are not used to the life in the countryside. Maybe they don't exclude marrying a countryman, but they can fight together in the city, and they don't want to go to the valley for a lifetime
If we want to solve this problem, we can only say that because of the flow of women, rural women are not willing to marry local poor families, they are more willing to marry far away to slightly rich places, which leads to the hollowing out of marriage resources at the grassroots level?