Chapter 383 (1/2)
Ren Yiling's family has a hair dryer. Ren Yiling used it when he went home last year. But this year, Ren Yiling couldn't find the hair dryer after washing his head. When he asked Ren Yiling's younger brother, Ren Yiling's younger brother said that his mother said the hair dryer had radiation and put it away.
When guests come to the house to pour tea, they use more than ten or twenty water cups at a time. Ren Yiling tells Ren Yiling's mother that the cups are hard to wash. Let's use disposable paper cups. Ren Yiling's mother says that disposable paper cups have wax in them. She always feels unsafe and will melt into hot water.
Ren Yiling usually criticizes these rumors on the Internet, but Ren Yiling finds that she can't even convince her mother.
Even if Ren Yiling made the rumor clear, Ren Yiling's mother said that she believed it, it would not change the result. For example, Ren Yiling told her that the microwave oven and hair dryer had no radiation, and that the disposable paper cup was safe food grade polypropylene... She said Ren Yiling was right, but she was used to it and could not change it.
To say this, we want to say that the concept is too different, which not only makes Ren Yiling's parents unable to enjoy the convenience of new technology, but also makes Ren Yiling uncomfortable every time he goes home.
The examples cited by Ren Yiling are only superficial. Other deeper conceptual contradictions, such as marriage, family and education for the next generation, are everywhere.
For example, Ren Yiling wants to take Ren Yiling's younger brother to see the latest movie. Ren Yiling's mother says that there is a VIP on TV at home. When there is VIP on TV, you can watch it on TV. Why do you spend that money.
Ren Yiling's parents never take his younger brother to the cinema. Ren Yiling told Ren Yiling's mother that you can see the children in the city. Their parents often take their children to the cinema, drama, travel, various extracurricular activities and interest classes. Young people's families don't have money. When their younger brother goes to high school, they have to go to the school in the city to compare with their classmates in the city, What if the gap between vision and experience is too big
But Ren Yiling's mother said, you grew up like this when you were a child. Young people grew up like this when they were young. What's the problem?
My mother has been urging Ren Yiling to get married early and give birth to a baby. Ren Yiling says that she doesn't want to have a baby. Her mother is angry and says that no one doesn't have a baby. Do you still look like a woman if you don't have a baby.
Ren Yiling doesn't want to give birth to a son, but he has no confidence in marriage. One of her classmates has divorced twice, married three times and had two children.
Ren Yiling's cousin divorced last year, and her daughter was taken away by her cousin. Ren Yiling's cousin lived with her parents after she got married. She has three children. Her family has been disharmonious. There are many conflicts between her cousin and her parents. Her husband and parents-in-law don't deal with them. Now she is on the verge of divorce.
These Ren Yiling's mothers all know that she forces Ren Yiling to get married and have children. She thinks that when a woman is old, she must get married and have children. Ren Yiling can't understand it
My mother also said that now that she has a baby, she can help Ren Yiling take care of it without her. Ren Yiling is even more reluctant. In her heart, all the parents who leave their children in the countryside for their grandparents are irresponsible to their children, so you ask Ren Yiling if they want to live with their parents.
To tell you the truth, Ren Yiling doesn't want to be a grandmother. Her mother wants to be a grandmother. Ren Yiling can't do what she wants. You can scold Ren Yiling for being selfish, but that's the truth.