Chapter 376 (1/2)

You always feel that you are not good enough, but you don't know that this is not good enough. In many people's minds, you need to look up to it. You only see the very few people at the top of the pyramid, which is of course too demanding.

After that conversation, Yu Jianyi began to face up to his psychological problems, and began to take some measures to help him out of this state. The most important way is self affirmation.

Since Yu Jianyi affirmed, it is hard to dig out their own advantages and highlights, and fully affirmed them. In the early stage, recognition can be strengthened by praise suggestion. But the best way is to strengthen and enlarge the advantages through continuous learning, so as to really do well in the advantages.

Everyone must have their own limitations, and strive to do the best they can do. It is the greatest effort to do what they can do. It has been a great achievement.

As for those who can make great achievements at all times and in all over the world, they are all pushed to the top of the wave by chance, and rely on their wisdom and strength to turn the tide, change the current situation, realize their great ambitions, and build immortal meritorious deeds.

It doesn't matter that others don't approve of you. The most terrible thing is that you don't affirm and approve yourself. To find our own bright spot and affirm ourselves is equivalent to finding a foothold for our way forward and taking it as the bridgehead to push forward.

Dongfang Changming said to Yu Jianyi, ”you can only see that many students in Tsinghua University are better than you and are better than you in all aspects, but you can't see countless people like me. They work very hard when they study, but in the end they can only go to a second rate school.

You only see that your company's business is unstable and its profit is not enough, but you don't see that more than 100 companies may be losing money. You always feel that you are not good enough, but you don't know that this is not good enough. In many people's minds, you need to look up to it. You only see the very few people at the top of the pyramid, which is of course too demanding. ”

After that conversation, Yu Jianyi began to face up to his psychological problems, and began to take some measures to help himself out of this state. The most important way is self affirmation.

Self affirmation is trying to dig out the advantages and highlights of yourself and fully affirm them.

In the early stage, we can strengthen cognition through self praise and self suggestion. But the best way is to strengthen and enlarge the advantages through continuous learning, so as to really do well in the advantages.

It doesn't matter that others don't approve of you. The most terrible thing is that you don't affirm and approve yourself. To find our own bright spot and affirm ourselves is equivalent to finding a foothold for our way forward and taking it as the bridgehead to push forward.

”How do you know so much? It's totally different from you I knew before. What makes you like this? ” Yu Jianyi asked Dongfang Changming.

Dongfang Changming told Yu Jianyi, ”I met several Internet authors, one of whom is Fang Tianxing. They taught me these things.”

”Is Fang Tianxing the author of the Internet? I'd like to know him, too. ” Yu Jianyi said with interest.

Yu Jianyi finds Fang Tianxing's information and finds that he is participating in a poverty alleviation activity in a small town. When he meets Fang Tianxing, he is speaking on the stage.

”The winner is strong, the self winner is strong. The meaningless point of comparing with others is that why do you think you want to get more than everyone around you like the rich second generation? Because you were born smart? Isn't this gift of intelligence, like being rich, coming from parents?