Chapter 375 (1/2)
Dongfang Changming said with emotion: ”brother, what you said is right.”
”I work so hard just to be an ordinary person. To accept the ordinary is the most extraordinary thing that ordinary people do in their life. The most important thing in most people's life is to accept that they are ordinary people. ” Xuanyuanfeng said to Dongfang Changming.
When everyone was born, they all thought that this world existed for him. When he found that he was wrong, he began to grow up. There are three times of growth in life. One is to find that you are no longer the center of the world. The other is to find that no matter how hard you try, there is nothing you can do. The third is to accept your own commonness and enjoy it.
The only success we don't recognize is the harmony of family and the insipidity of life. A lot of people always have a kind of glorious plot in their bones. They don't feel that they are not successful enough if they don't get into trouble.
But the real success should be diversified. Owning more than ten houses is a success. A family without quarrels and intrigues is also a success.
It's a success in some people's eyes to keep more than a dozen honey, but it's also a success to travel around the world with one's beloved. It's success to call the wind and rain in officialdom and workplace. It's also success for someone to devote their youth to children in need of help, or to find their own value in their own work.
Life is an experience, an experience. It depends on how you face it.
At the stage of reading, most people seldom encounter big setbacks and real problems. It also gives people the illusion that all problems can be solved as long as you work hard enough.
However, the more real the social environment is, the smaller the proportion of individual efforts in the results will be. Previously neglected family environment, personal accumulation, social relations and other things can not be obtained by short-term efforts, and ordinary people are not likely to get them. Because of scarcity, these things play an increasingly important role in the results.
People gradually find that some heights can never be reached by themselves, and some people can never surpass themselves. They will form a strong contrast with the cognition formed for a long time in the past and can't accept it all at once.
These two factors make it easy for people to get into such a corner, from the past self-confidence to inferiority, and deny the significance of past efforts because of inferiority, and then can not find the motivation to continue to work hard.
Since we have been working hard for such a long time, we still have such a setback. Why should we work hard? It's better to live a little easier.
Once this kind of mentality of breaking the pot comes into being, it is very difficult to go back to the past state of being full of chicken blood and positive. If it continues to get worse, there will be more negative and negative emotions. For example, they complain that God is unfair to them. For example, they deny others' achievements and attribute others' achievements to their family background. For example, they are cynical, narcissistic and self enclosed.
Today, Dongfang Changming went to a small company to deliver goods. Suddenly, he met his former classmate Yu Jianyi. He started a small company. After going through the difficulties in the early stage, the business of the company slowly got on the right track and began to make profits.
”It's really hard to start a business. Now Yu Jianyi's income is quite good compared with that of his peers, but the company is still too small. Maybe one day he will go bankrupt and find another way out.” Yu Jianyi said with emotion.