Chapter 290 (1/2)
After listening to Fang Tianxing's speech, the fans at the bottom don't know whether they really understand it. Some of them seem to suddenly realize it, some of them seem to be extremely irritable, and everything they believe collapses suddenly, which makes it hard for people to accept it all at once.
It's not that how many fans of those people really believe Xu Fan's words, but that they need this kind of thought as a weapon to support their lives. Now they are told that all this is false, which makes them not know how to continue to live.
Fang Tianxing knows that the next is the most difficult place, how to let them regain a new life and find their own direction.
At the bottom, a woman with a face full of flesh stood up. She took the lead in making trouble. She said to Tianxing, ”this society is very unfair. To tell you the truth, I really don't care who my child's surname is. I can also take my husband's surname. But I am very worried that if I have a baby, there will be my job and my life.
The difference between men and women, at most, is the difference in strength. For example, boys can lift a box by themselves, and we two women can carry it together.
There is not a girl standing beside, naturally think that physical work belongs to boys, girls only do some cleaning work, or simply watch on the side.
Fang Tianxing said: ”so what I want to say is that women, whether they are women's rights or equal rights, must give up some things while demanding equal social status. You can't have both fish and bear's paws. I hope that female friends can understand the huge pressure of boys in the society, and male friends should also respect women's efforts. ”
But most of the time, everyone is eager to help themselves and reduce their struggle in the relationship between the two sexes. Therefore, everyone looks at others with a magnifying glass and himself with a microscope.
Put forward all kinds of requirements and standards for the desired partner, and at the same time, look up to yourself. Both men and women are eager for a kind of perfect lover who takes the initiative of each other and pays more for each other.
However, no one is a fool, many people in life are in the state of zero sum game, more and more people see the truth, silly pain, and finally become ”smart”.
Everyone is eager for the other party to pay first, the other party takes the initiative, but does not ask why the other party must take the initiative to you?
The more information men and women have, the more utilitarian they will be. At the same time, when choosing a mate, we began to put forward a lot of soft requirements, and these requirements are invisible. In fact, they are afraid that others will think they are too utilitarian.
When time goes by, people's hearts become impetuous, and the simple saying ”I like you, I am good to you, I also like you, you are good to me, I am good to you” in the past is what I miss most in my heart.
”Men are all pig hooves, they can only cheat.” A woman stood up and said.
They are delicate egoists. They are cautious and sensitive to love and marriage. They want to get the benefits of love, and they are afraid of the time, energy and money invested in the early stage. They are afraid of failure, rejection and failure. So always use a defensive attitude to deal with all people.
But the other side is not a fool, in the face of this defensive posture, is not willing to devote themselves. So these two groups of people are constantly trying to find out what to do.
Such a marriage is impossible to get happiness, can only let them constantly vent their anger.