Part 9 (2/2)

*You mean to say that you left a bag in the trunk of the cab, sir?'

*No, no. Not a trunk. It was only a bag.'

I saw the two policemen exchange a look. I was making a fool of myself.

After that morning was finally over, my mortification was still bristling on my skin. I opened my controversial bag. The first thing I saw was the lemon and chilli thread my mother had made to protect me from evil. I hurled it out of my dorm window. It was the first step towards my reinvention. I learned then to speak English-not the English I'd learned with pride in my village-but American English: *elevator' not *lift' and *peppers' not *capsic.u.m'. After watching scores of Hollywood movies, attending American parties and dating American girls, I developed that coveted nasal tw.a.n.g. I ate beef burgers and steaks, and I wore jeans and T-s.h.i.+rts. My Indian clothes were slowly discarded, along with the invitations to the Indian chess club and Friday's Indian buffet at Maharaj restaurant. After a few years, I married a lovely American woman, who loved me more than I deserved, and raised our son as an American.

I became obsessed with wringing the best out of America. Each moment had to be lived perfectly, without mistakes: reaching the office on time, presenting my boss with a thoughtful Christmas gift, putting my son in a private school, not nicking my chin while shaving, becoming Vice-President of Operations at Delta and kissing my wife goodnight.

Life kept pus.h.i.+ng forward like a line of tumbling dominoes and I became afraid-afraid that if I paused to look back, I'd stumble, and my past would fall upon me in a heap, suffocating me.

A heavy-handed pragmatism set into my life. I labelled everything in two categories: convenient or inconvenient. If I longed for my mother's embrace or was. .h.i.t by a wave of nostalgia for the smells of my village, the emotion was treated as excessive, ignored as inconvenient. My wife and son pecked on the fragments of emotions I could afford-a spontaneous picnic at Hunter Mountain or a surprise trip to Disneyland.

Thirty-eight years pa.s.sed like this, with me *finding no time' to go back to India or meet my parents. And then-as happens-my parents died.

The sense of loss I felt was so immense that I didn't even know how to slot it into my life.

After all, my father had been the source of my ambition, and without him, I felt adrift, like a s.h.i.+p that sets sail for the world, only to find that it has nowhere to dock.

I stopped being the first person to arrive in the office every morning. I turned down the promotion to President of Operations. I sold my stock options and gave the money to Oxfam. When Karen made my favourite American dish-lamb roast-I asked for dal makhani, but couldn't eat it. I would not go out for a movie or for a coffee unless Karen came with me. I insisted that Rahul spend every holiday, even New Year's Eve with me.

Two years pa.s.sed. I lost twelve kilos.

Karen grew concerned. She consulted doctors and psychiatrists on my behalf. She crammed our kitchen shelves with Indian recipe books and spices. I overheard her tell Rahul, *He looks lost, unhappy. I've never seen him like this.'

When Rahul married an Indian girl raised in the US like him, I suggested that we live together as a joint family. When Preeti said no, I sold our home in Long Island and bought a three-bedroom apartment on Oak Avenue in Metuchen, which was closer to Preeti's and Rahul's workplaces. I opened a joint bank account in all our names, where I pooled my savings, luring the struggling newlyweds with the *money-for-all' hook. When Preeti quit her job to take care of her newborn, I pitched Karen and my services as babysitters, which, if we lived together, would allow Preeti to start working again. I promised to gift Rahul my last treasure-an Audi A6-which he could drive to work.

*You can't buy love, Sunny,' Karen said to me gently.

But I had to speak in the language I'd taught my child. Ambition. He was ambitious for my love. He was ambitious for my generosity. So I used both.

Three years later, when I retired, we all finally moved in together. For Rahul and Preeti it was a pragmatic short-term decision to live rent-free for a couple of years and grow their savings.

Karen warned me, *This may not turn out as you expect.'

*I can tolerate anything as long as I'm with family,' I replied determinedly.

The first year of retirement, which is tough for most, was pleasant for me. Karen pampered the grandchildren and me; and Preeti and Rahul were affable and appreciative. It was only after Karen pa.s.sed away from a heart attack two years later, and our living situation became a permanent possibility, that all our att.i.tudes s.h.i.+fted.

Preeti became resentful. She bristled when we crossed in the corridor and her face carried a look of bitter perseverance when I was around.

Rahul took no one's side, adopting an oblique approach, as would any man walking the tightrope between his wife and father. Still, he honoured his promise to his beloved dead mother, to look after me. He was a better absentee son to me than I'd been an absentee father to him.

Meanwhile, I was gripped with a fear of living and dying without family, as my parents had. After all, Jay and Karan were growing up fast, already ten and seven years old, and Rahul's dental practice was flouris.h.i.+ng: he'd soon be able to afford his own house. I couldn't give them any cause for grievances.

So I let Karan push more and more for the lion's portion of the queen bed we shared. I took Jay and Karan to school, swimming lessons and soccer practice; made them grilled cheese sandwiches and pasta when their mother wasn't home; nursed them through their falls and fevers. I babysat them when Preeti and Rahul went for dinner and the movies on Sat.u.r.day night.

I did all the things I hadn't had time to do for my own son.

I lived like an uninvited guest in my own home, relegating myself to the background, coming out of my room only at mealtimes, showering after everyone else. On weekends I went for long walks alone, giving their family *family time'. I took no offence when Rahul didn't inform me that he was buying a new couch for the house and a bigger clinic.

I watched Rahul's daily failures, quietly, as he had once watched mine. I saw him make the same mistakes with his sons as I had made with him-already isolating them with his ambition.

Remember, son, every man ends in his own family, was all I said to Rahul.

The tea in my cup has gone cold.

The mall is bustling now with scurrying office goers, more teenagers and bored housewives. There's a sticky smell of food and the hurried clang of utensils coming from the food court a floor above us. It must be lunchtime.

Mrs Gupta rubs her nose and says, *I'm going to the toilet.'

Mrs Patel corrects her, *Divya, you must say, ”I'm going to the ladies room, please excuse me.”'

*Yes. Please excuse,' says Mrs Gupta. She looks at me and I remember her instructions two days ago to follow her after ten minutes to the food court. I watch her as she tentatively steps onto the escalator; her bags cover half the stair and she covers the other half.

I smile at the thought of being alone with her.

The owner of the jewellery kiosk in front of us packs away her wares and locks them up. I wave to her. She gives me a stiff smile. I've never bought anything from her.

Seeing her pack up is a cue for everyone else to go home for lunch: being frugal, we never eat at the mall. My house is a forty-minute walk from the mall so I skip lunch altogether.

After the group leaves, I go to the food court.

Mrs Gupta is sitting on the edge of a chair, opening a steel tiffin carrier stacked with four boxes-a contraption I haven't seen in half a century. People carrying food trays choose to sit away from her table.

*Thank you, Mrs Gupta. You really didn't have to do all this,' I say as I approach her.

*Please, no formal,' she says. Her face is flushed; this is only the second time that we're alone. She adds, *I didn't got chance to say thank you. You so very kindly listen to me last time. It is difficult, no, to talk openly in front of so much people?'

She takes out the boxes one by one.

*This is food from your region in India. You from Charuri village, no, in Himachal? I have friend of friend's sister, from s.h.i.+mla, who give me recipe on phone.'

She opens a box containing madra, yogurt-doused kidney beans.

*I hope this reminding you of your Mummyji's cooking. Maybe, if I am so lucky, your wifeji's cooking. Never I see you eat, so I think this dishes make you feel good hunger.'

This time I identify the sweet-and-sour smell before she opens the next box. It used to be my favourite dish, kaale chane ka khatta; my Biji slow-cooked it every Sunday especially for me, laughing as I hovered around the stove, impatient for it to be ready.

Mrs Gupta then takes out the dessert box that holds mitha, sweet rice mixed with raisins, pistachios and saffron. The smell and sight of this food transfixes me, taking me slowly back to my past, to my village in Kangra, above my two-hectare farmland, to my mud hut where my Baba is watching me bent over a kerosene lamp, solving a math problem.

*It took much time. Each dish have twenty spices, but I think it taste okay,' Mrs Gupta is saying.

There is a rumble of sounds in the food court, yet one by one each sound becomes distinct. A baby cries in the distance. Someone orders a chicken burrito. A cash register clangs.

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