19 Whats Love?? (2/2)
”Yes, anyone can, at any age can fall in love. Age is just a number. But if children of your age fall in love, you will face difficulties in establishing your future. Love vanishes as you struggle to make the future. So you must be careful with what you do....” Varun explained further to guage his daughter's intentions.
Punya didn't talk for a couple of minutes, she simply finished her plate and got up. She went to kitchen, put her plate in the sink and came back. Four pairs of eyes were on her waiting for her reaction. ”Thanks Appa, I will go sleep, Goodnight” she wished as she went towards the steps.
”Punya one minute” Varun stopped her ”If you feel a strong attraction towards anyone, think well. Don't go by looks or assets. Think about it, will you be able to withstand all his characters, his mood swings, his temperament, his good and bad nature etc. He must be mature enough to treat you like a princess, the way we treat you with love and respect, in fact more than us. More importantly you should never give up your dreams and ambitions for him. Studies shouldn't be neglected. You need your own career and life apart from him, never be a dependent. You were raised to be independent woman, keep that in your mind”. He gave a good but long lecture.
”Don't worry Appa, I will tell you if I find such a guy. I asked this question because I heard a lecture about Love today afternoon that's it. I'll always be your independent princess. Will never go against you in this matter. Trust me” she assured and climbed up the stairs.
”Varun how could you answer her so calmly? She's going out of her limits” Narmada asked angrily.
”Relax sweetie, imagine we get offended by her question and scold her, she'll never open up in front of us. We'll not be able to know what's troubling her or what's making her happy if she doesn't tell. We're her friends now, if she's comfortable here, she'll never go out to find another comfort zone” he explained.
”What he says is correct, Narmada. Teenage children are not kids or adults, it's age of confusions and conflicts, family should be their comfort zone. If they feel we doubt or scold them they'll start keeping secrets.” added Eshwar, the grandfather.
”What if she finds a guy attractive?” Narmada asked in anxiety.
”It's difficult for her, do you think she'll be able to find a guy who has all the characters I enlisted. Such a guy is hard to find. Moreover she promised me that she'll tell me. Don't worry” Varun said in a convincing way.
”I don't know what it leads to, I'm scared” Narmada said.
”We must believe our kids, generations have changed, their lifestyle and ours are worlds apart. We should guide them and wait for them to learn. If we force them, they'll hop out. Punya is a mature girl, she thinks ahead of her age group, she'll not take wrong decisions” said Varun confidently.
”Varun, how do you know all this?” asked Gowri who was silent spectator till now.
”Amma, I too learnt from seeing other parents and kids around. Teenage is the age where kids are turning from small caterpillar to a beautiful butterfly. Physical, psychological and hormonal changes will be rapid. We must support them” he said.
”We all will take care of this passing phase carefully” said Eshwar.
”Do you think it's Thrishul? she invited him for dinner suddenly” Narmada questioned.
Varun thought for a moment and said ”May be or may be not. She might have invited out of gratitude as he bought her the book. We've to wait for them to reveal. We shouldn't force them to do it”
”Yes” everyone at the table agreed and the night ended peacefully.