32 Dominate me (1/2)
Joslyn had just found a movie when the bedroom door opened, and Russ walked in with a tray of fruit and a large glass of water.She watched as he laid the tray on the end of the bed and set the glass on the nightstand on his side of the bed. {His side? Since when did I consider that his side and this one mine?}
'Love' noises from the television brought Russ's attention to the large screen hanging beside his dresser. His head turned sideways in curiosity as he took in the scene playing out.”What in the world are you watching? This isn't that 50 something movie, is it?”
Joslyn gave a small laugh before answering, ”It is. I figured you of all people would be able to relate to it, considering your interests in the bedroom…”
Russ busted out laughing as he came down on the bed and made his way over to her.He pulled the tray up between them before laying back onto one elbow. He placed a strawberry to her lips before answering. ”I'm not into BDSM.” He shrugged one large shoulder, ”True I am somewhat of a dominant and I do seriously enjoy bondage and other kinky things but I'm not into the S&M.” He wiped a small droplet of juice from her lip and licked it off his figure before continuing. ”Besides those movies don't really depict any aspect of the BDSM community properly.”
Joslyn looked up at him in confusion, ”What do you mean?”
He popped a grape into his mouth and began bringing the pod to her lips. As she bit off a grape he continued. ”Well first off it only really shows kinky sex and toy play.I guess my biggest problem with it is the lack of communication and consent...” He chuckled as she gave him a 'are you serious right now' glare.”Yeah I know, who am I to talk about consent... but it is important in these types of scenarios especially with someone you've only just met.Most people in this community meet in online forums or groups specially designed for BDSM.You already know before your first word to the person they are at least somewhat knowledgeable about the community and how it works.” He laughed again as she gave him another strange look. ”What?”
Joslyn arched a brow, ”How do you know about these websites and groups?”
He chuckled and sent her a playful wolfish grin, ”I just do.Anyway, as I was saying... If you were to meet someone that wasn't familiar with it and wanted to introduce them, you wouldn't bring them to your fuck pad first thing.Even with someone who was well versed in BDSM, you would first go over and set up scenarios and roles before going into a room like that.Also, it doesn't really show too much aftercare or cooldowns.You're not going to throw them into a room alone after an intense role play that involved physical or mental distress for the sub.”
Confusion turned to suspicion as she asked, ”I thought you just said you aren't into that kind of stuff, anyways you've never asked for my consent?”
He chuckled as he leaned down to kiss the tip of her nose. ”I'm not into the more violent aspects of it, one...”
Her eyebrows arched again as she interrupted, ”You bit me…”
His lips turned up in a smirk, ”That was more the wolf than me, I really can't control that side of myself sometimes.It's not something I would ever do to a casual lover.” It was his turn to arch a questioning brow in her direction. ”You, yourself even recognized it for what it was the first night it happened.”
Her expression changed again as she asked, ”So what do you mean by communication and aftercare?”
His smile widened, ”Instead of explaining it, why don't I show you.”
He grabbed the tray and walked with it over to the dresser and set it down then turned back and pulled the sheets off her and the bed with one quick flick of his wrist. He felt along the edges of the bed removing straps from each of the four corners.He removed the strap from the corner above her head last.He smiled down at her before pulling her up into a sitting position. He carefully pulled the shirt up over her head and tossed it onto the floor, then he retrieved a hairband from the nightstand and began braiding her hair.
”I never understood what the braid was for.” Joslyn commented as he hands worked quickly through her hair.
”He smiled mischievously, ”Saftey, primarily.Don't what to get your hair caught in a strap or something do you?” He tied off the end with the hairband then stepped away. ”Now first and foremost… If anything gets too intense please, please, please let me know.For the movie's sake, we will stick with yellow and red as your safe words. Typically safe words are only used and needed for the violent aspects but just in case something gets too intense or uncomfortable for you say yellow and I'll ease up or say red and I will completely stop.” He bent and pulled a box out from under his bed. when he stood there was a blindfold and what looked like a dog leash in his hand along with something she couldn't identify. ”Typically, this would be something predetermined and the scenes would be preplanned but since this is more of a demonstration of various aspects…” He began asking questions and waiting in between for her to answer. ”Do you consent to anal play? Light choking? Being restrained by both legs and hands? Do you consent to being blindfolded? Is there anything you would like done to you?”
Joslyn thought carefully for a few minutes before answering, ”I know you said you weren't into it but I am kinda curious about the spanking….” Her face turned bright red as she looked away.
He nodded, then answered in all seriousness. ”That's fine, as I said part of it is finding out what both people want to get out of it.” he began attaching the collar to her neck. ”Do you want to be spanked for pleasure or as a punishment?”
Joslyn watched as he attached a leash to the collar around her neck. ”Um… I don't really know. Isn't both an option?”
He chuckled, ”How about this if you hesitate too much when I ask you to do things I'll 'spank' you then?”
Joslyn shrugged her shoulders, ”Ok, sounds good... I guess…” She looked down at the leash as she ran her fingers over the soft fur lining of the collar.”I'm really having trouble believing you're not into this stuff...”
He shrugged, ”Never said I wasn't into kinky sex, just said I wasn't into BDSM... Ya have to try it a few times before you know you're not into it though...” He sent her a wicked smile, ”Don't you?”