11 Mother in law (1/2)

Vivian visited his mom on weekend.

Ira expressed to tag along this time.

She didn't want to visit her alone.

It could very well be like her first meeting.

She remembered, during the engagement when everyone was waiting for the bride, Ira showed up in a charcoal black dress to show her rebellion.

Ira was rude to his Mom. She didn't talk to her.

The next time was even more disrespectful. It was after their marriage Ira called her aunt. His mom said ”You can call me Mom”

”I already have a Mom” she had mumbled.

Maybe she heard that!

Maybe she even hates her!

She never felt so anxious...

What should I wear?

What should I take as a gift?

What should I talk?

Ira knew Viv loved his mom a lot.

She now wondered about her.

What kind of person is she? Serious? Funny? Reserved?

Ira wanted to know her and get close to her so

She did a quick online search on the way.

____How to impress mother in law___

1. The gift shouldn't go one way.

2. Accept generosity.

3. Don't compete.

4. Ask for his childhood memories and jokes.

5. Respect her.

After doing a full research it was time for the big test.

Past Ira never visited her place. So it was first time visiting his Mom

While entering the house Ira held Vivian's hand to feel safe. It was hard to imagine the tough impregnable Ira would someday quiver with nervousness on meeting her mother in law.

Immediately upon her arrival inside her eyes fell on a huge photo hanged on the wall. It was their wedding photo.

Ironically her own house didn't have one but his mom placed it so conspicuously.