Chapter 565 (1/2)
When Liu Zhao came back, it was already very late. It was almost three o'clock.
”No rest yet?”
He came into the upper room with a chill.
Gu Jiu is sitting on the soft cave with a book. Yu Ge'er is lying on the couch, writing and painting with a charcoal pen. His spirit is very good.
Gu Jiuchao Yu elder brother son direction Nu nuzui, ”your son is in the ascendant. Don't you want to keep up with the new year today? I'll let him do what he wants, and I won't stop him. ”
Liu Zhao took off his robe, washed his face with hot water, and sat down beside Gu Jiu.
”Is he naughty again?”
Gu Jiu laughed. ”You don't know. Your son has a big idea. He doesn't want to listen to him.”
Fortunately, Yu Ge'er doesn't belong to bear children. He won't mess around outside, and he will have a face. Don't like people, even a look.
Liu Zhao, holding his sleeve, ”or beat him before the new year arrives.”
Anyway, I'm free. Let's play with the kids.
Yu Ge'er raised his head and looked at Liu Zhao. At a young age, there is a little inquiry and doubt in the eyes.
Then, he looked at Gu Jiu again. His eyes were innocent and pitiful. Black bright black eyes, as if the next second will be occupied by tears.
Gu Jiu's heart was soft, and he quickly comforted him: ”today's new year, no one beat you. Yuge'er, keep playing. ”
Yu Ge'er wiped his eyes, ”don't fight, darling.”
”Well, we don't play. You are the best. ”
Yu Ge'er didn't smile. He just buried his head and continued to scribble.
Gu Jiu lowered his voice and said to Liu Zhao, ”see it, don't speak in front of him in the future.”
Liu Zhao, with a smile, lowered his voice along with Gu Jiu, ”such a small child, with so much heart, is not a lesson.”
Gu Jiubai glanced at him, ”when you were a child, you were almost the same as him. They were not very obedient children. I guess you're not as good as your brother. ”
Liu Zhao was very eager to say, ”I was much better than him when I was a child.”
”Then why does the empress mother always say that you have not been liked since you were a child. I'll give you porridge, but you'll have noodles. I'll give you meat, but you'll have soup. Let you read, but you run to dance knife and gun. If you ask you to play with your brothers, you will beat and cry, and you will drive away a few nannies, and there will be only one left... ”
When Liu Zhao was a child, she should belong to the kind of children who were very skinny, very thoughtful and never blindly follow adults.
This kind of child is not a good child in the traditional sense.
What is a good child in the eyes of adults?
He is obedient and sensible.
At the age of enlightenment, you can sit in the school to read and read, and you can get full marks.
Parents do what they call. They are as good as the most exquisite dolls. They don't need parents to hold half a snack.
Obviously, Liu Zhao is not a good boy in the traditional sense.
In the eyes of the elders, he is not only a good child, but also a bad child who always makes trouble, annoys parents and opposes their parents.
In addition, he disdains to say some nice words. Soft words make people happy. He only confronts his parents.
No wonder empress Pei always said that Liu Zhao was not liked since childhood. I don't like this one, and it continues to this day.
The feelings between people are wonderful.
If you don't like a person since childhood, it is very likely that this dislike will accompany your growth and your adulthood.
Even in old age, you may still not like this person.
If you are a child, you like someone very much. Even if he grew up later, he knew that he was not as good as he looked when he was a child, and even did disgusting things.
But because you like it, it's hard to hate this person. At best, it's disgusting.
In the same way, an adult does not like a child, no matter what the reason is, when the child grows up, he still does not like it.
The love of parents to their children is almost the same.
Even if it is a natural child, when the child is small, it is not liked by people and parents. It is very likely that the child will not be liked by his parents when he grows up.
No matter how good and hard the child grows up, if he doesn't like it, he doesn't like it.
The child that parents like since childhood, even if they grow up to be useless and even eat, drink, whore and gamble, they can still get the greatest tolerance and help from their parents.
However, if the child has changed a little bit and improved a little bit, even if he only needs to be filial to him for 100 yuan, even without money. To say a few nice words, this child is the best child in the hearts of his parents, and other children can't compare with him.
Parents will willingly take out their coffin to help the child.
Even if the truth is, this child who eats, drinks, whores and gambles is the worst of all.
However, the child coax, say a few nice words, and do not need to have any real pay and filial piety, parents like this child, can be decades like a day.
This is common in families with many children.At the end of the day, feelings are too mysterious to be rational.
Like is like, do not like is not like, can not do the slightest fake.
Like the child even if it is a slag, parents also hope that he is good, willing to give him the best.
Children who don't like it may not get a sincere smile or a good word from their parents even if they are in front of the hospital bed and are waiting for food and drink.
Maybe parents will squeeze the filial child and subsidize the favorite one.
Human heart is flesh long, not machine-made. There is no love scale, can not do a bowl of water level, there is no way to divide love into how many shares.
”Because I'm not a likeable person at all.”
Liu Zhao said this easily without any burden.
He never seemed to care why others didn't like him.
It's rare.
When people are young, they will inevitably care who likes themselves and who doesn't like them. That person doesn't like himself. Why?
However, in Gu Jiu's memory, Liu Zhao had never been confused about this problem for even a second.
Gu Jiu pointed to Yu Ge'er, then pointed to Liu Zhao and asked, ”do you guess Yu Ge'er will care whether we love him or not?”
Liu Zhao was silent for a moment.
After silence, he laughed, ”he is still young, can not distinguish what is the most important.”
Gu Jiu shook his head and said in disapproval, ”different ages have different needs. Yuge'er needs to eat and play now.
His life, eating and playing is perfect. Eating and playing are the most important to him, which he knows better than anyone else. You try not to give him to eat, do not let him play, he will turn the sky.
When he is a little older and starts to read, he will naturally have new needs when he has the contrast of his peers. You can't deny his needs just because he's young, and think that what he needs now doesn't matter
Liu Zhao nodded and said, ”you are right.”
This word does not stray at all, very perfunctory.