V5.Chapter 136 (2/2)
This kind of mentality is like from talking about war on paper to experiencing the situation. It's all imaginary. It's all imagination. Before you go through it, of course, you use and play the experience of people around you. Shen's father, brother, uncle and uncle all have concubines, even his mother, Mrs. su.
So after looking at these examples, Shen didn't decide to stay with his wife for the rest of his life at first, but he still felt that he would like to receive several beauties. Isn't that the case with other people? Their wives are not good yet?But when he was in the situation, he had a loving wife. The beauty sent by colleagues, subordinates, relatives and so on is alive and colorful. Many times, the wife is not around. It's bullshit to say that she is not lonely in the long night.
But think about Wei Changying's sadness and despair after knowing the news. She is reluctant to hurt her heart. In this way, his backyard is always clean.
But that doesn't mean Shen zangfeng supports all men not to take concubines.
As the legitimate son of the Shen family in Xiliang, he was cultivated as a lord since he was a child, and the education he received was of course the most mainstream of the times.
Shen never thought it was wrong for a man to take a concubine. He didn't take a concubine because he loved his wife and didn't want her to be sad. As for others Isn't every wife as good as my family Ying'er?
It may not be that the husband and wife get along well, and they don't let the husband take some concubines to comfort them. It's too unreasonable - unless the wife is really virtuous and pays a lot for her husband and her husband's family, in this case, the husband doesn't miss the old love and spoil the wife Shen zangfeng would think it's wrong.
The problem is that there is a lot to be paid for, and the standard of judgment here is relatively high. It's not all his fault. After all, since ancient times, there has been such a fashion. There is no touching story and ordinary life. Who in this world would think that the lady is hard?
For example, in the past few years when Huo Qingling and her daughter lived in Xiliang, Wei Changying thought that it was very sad for them to separate from their husbands at a young age, raise their daughter alone, and bear the bad news from their parents.
But Shen Zanfeng and Shen liankun thought that Huo Qingling got the chance to hide in the secret room when the imperial capital was occupied. Later, when his mother-in-law was gone, in fact, the elder sister-in-law, Wei Changying, was not a harsh person. He was always considerate to the sisters-in-law. In the age of war, Huo Qingling lived in the West cool, delicious and good to drink. Even if he was in charge, he would give his sisters a hand , it's her turn to take the pressure has been decreasing. In the past few years, no one has been angry with her, no one has deliberately bullied her, even if the first child is a daughter, no one has said a word about her - what can be unsatisfied with the good clothes and good food?
I'm not satisfied with all this. Aren't these Shen family men living worse lives than pigs and dogs?
As for the tragedy of the Huo family, it was Huo Zhaoyu's work. Of course, Huo Qingling is not to blame, but the Shen family, right?
And Shen liankun has a lot of people in his backyard now. These days, there are few people in his backyard who don't have Meiji, such as Shen zangfeng? Since most of those who are good wives can live - not Shen's first wife, even his sister-in-law, Shen doesn't care - why can't Huo Qingling live?
Even if Huo Qingling feels bitter and wronged - no one of the Shen brothers will think that she has been wronged.
This is the difference between men and women in seeing things - far away, and the things in front of them.
To be honest, Shen thinks it's better not to interfere in the private affairs between husband and wife, even if it's their younger brother. After all, this kind of thing in backyard, unless it's a joke, seriously speaking, peers are always embarrassed.
This meeting with his wife meant to persuade Shen liankun to dismiss Ji Qie. He felt a little headache and said mildly, ”six younger brothers and sisters are from a famous family, and they have always been generous. How can they compete with several Ji Qie?”
Afraid that his wife was not satisfied, he added, ”when six younger brothers and sisters come, if there is any uneasiness, let six younger brothers and sisters send them out personally, which is not only in line with the rules, but also can establish prestige?”
Wei Changying sighed in her heart. For many years, she didn't know that although her husband had never accepted anyone, she had no idea about other men's concubines in the house - as long as they didn't miss the business - so she was ready to be rejected by him before she spoke. At the moment, he said, ”do you think I'm helping six younger brothers and sisters compete for favor? Am I that nosy person? Take care of my uncle's backyard! But you think, six younger brothers have no male heir now If this is not the eldest son, I'm afraid it will be very troublesome in the future. ”
This is indeed more effective than saying that there are too many people in the backyard of Shen liankun, which will make Huo Qingling come here unhappy and aggrieved. Shen Cangfeng immediately thought deeply and said, ”this is the reason. Tomorrow I will find an opportunity to talk to my sixth brother.”
Taking advantage of the situation, Wei Changying pinched him and spat: ”I have no conscience! I wanted to talk to you politely. As a result, you are so stupid. I have to make it clear! ”
At this time, it has been settled. In the inner room, the husband and wife hug each other and sleep. Why should they talk too euphemistically? Shen zangfeng is clear-minded, but he knows that his wife feels that she has been shamed and deliberately takes a reason to get back at her. Naturally, she has to make amends, coax and persuade