V1.Chapter 82 (1/2)
Wei Chang Ying Yishen said: ”I dare not say how tender and considerate I am to these two cousins. I don't think that I have lost the responsibility of being a sister, let alone intentionally feel sorry for them. However, I was slandered and talked about by others. When they heard this, they not only didn't come to me for questioning, but also believed in people's words and avoided me like a tiger Of course I'm not happy. ”
Huang listened to her and smiled a little more. He knew that Wei Changying was weighing, but he didn't doubt his ability. This shows that it is effective for the old lady song to introduce herself. It can be seen that the young lady has great trust in the old lady song. The old lady praised the Huang family. The old lady even got rid of the self-examination.
…… It's no wonder that the old lady worries about her granddaughter so much, that she trusts herself so much. Which elder generation has the heart to let her down?
Huang was thinking about it. He was always in a hurry. There would be no outsider, so he said, ”they...”
”Don't be impatient, sister he.” Huang stopped her with a smile on her face and said softly, ”since the old lady has entrusted the matter to the eldest lady, she always listens to her. If the eldest lady says something, we will do it no later. ”
Wei Changying can see that he Shi is not Huang Shi's opponent. What's more, he Shi's trust in her sister Huang is not much less than his trust in his grandmother, old lady song Now seeing Huang's coming, he's so frustrated that he doesn't want to move his mind. He just wants to fight for the battle himself
Secretly shaking his head, Wei Changying reluctantly decides to give up the idea of helping He Shi consolidate her first helping hand. He Shi is happy to give up his position. I'm afraid the result is he's headache. Huang's grievance is not good on both sides.
She raised her finger and swept her hair off her sideburns, and continued: ”then again, though I was very cold about what they have done this time, they are still cousins. Aunts three treat me well on weekdays. If I really want to do something about them, I have some Well, I don't want to embarrass them
I don't want to be too embarrassed. This means that I will do nothing and Wei Changying won't be willing to do it. But she didn't want to let these two cousins go, but she didn't have the heart to punish them too much, so the middle degree should be well handled.
With a smile, Huang first praised her: ”my sister and sister are kind-hearted, and I will be blessed in the future.” Another conversation turned and naturally turned to the reason for punishment. ”But the maid also had to persuade the eldest lady that there are national laws and family rules in this country. Although the eldest lady loves the fourth and fifth young ladies, it's a big thing if everyone breaks the rules! For the sake of Wei's basic business, even if the eldest lady can't bear to scold the fourth and fifth ladies, she can't go away without saying anything. ”
Wei Changying narrowed his eyes and thought that it was grandma who believed heavily. No matter what happened next, the skill of this hat is really powerful Now, we are tacitly discussing how to punish Wei Gaochan and Wei Changyan for their anger - this is a matter of public and private mixed.
As a result, in Huang's mouth, these two young ladies will shake Wei's foundation if they are not punished! What she said was reasonable and well founded, but she couldn't pick it out.
Huang's face was heavy on his heart, and he continued, ”it's a great truth. The maid is not wordy. The eldest lady is Gao Yi. She knows all about it, but she doesn't want to say it. Simply put, a family of brothers and sisters should have worked together and worked together! This is the truth that ordinary people who don't know big words can understand. Four young ladies and five young ladies are also great girls who can read in primary school. They have heard all the stories of the virtuous women and the martyrs. Compared with the common people between Penghao, they are not sure how much they have been taught! But I don't know right from wrong. I'm confused by outsiders. Knowing that the eldest lady is in danger, I don't want to support my cousin and refute rumors. Instead, I'm helping the tyranny to make it worse, and I've fallen for the eldest lady! ”
”So how can the eldest Miss help the fourth and the fifth miss to distinguish? The fourth and the fifth miss are also wrong! Even if the mistake is half made by ignorance and half by carelessness, people should follow the rules when they make mistakes! ” Huang's meaning has pointed out, ”everything is done according to the rules, there will be no mistake!”
Wei Changying savors the different intention in her words carefully: Wei Gaochan and Wei Changyan are indeed wrong this time, not due to the morality of being sisters. Huang compares the illiterate common people in the countryside with them, just to emphasize their transgressions. So the point should be that Huang said that they made mistakes while keeping the word ”rules” in mind. At the end of the day, they clearly pointed out that there is no mistake in doing things according to the rules!
Huang said he didn't want to be wordy, but he explained the fault of Wei Gaochan and Wei Changyan and their violation of the rules. To punish Wei Gaochan and Wei Changyan, there is no need to stress the rules like this. The Wei family certainly has family rules, but now in the backyard of Ruiyu hall, the words of old lady song are rules.
Therefore, her seemingly wordy words must have a purpose.
Recalling that the old lady of song reminded herself to ”listen to your Aunt Huang to talk about the capital's delicacy”, Wei Changying speculated that Huang's words were implicit but not obvious - was that what should be paid attention to when she took the opportunity to bring herself to the Shen family and become a daughter-in-law? Everything according to the rules, horizontal and vertical responsibility can not be on their own?
After a pause for Wei Changying to think about it, Huang obviously didn't mean to solve the problem immediately. Instead, he followed up with his suggestions: ”according to the rules of the Wei family, this time, miss four and miss five can't go unpunished, which is not only against the family rules, but also if they connive at evil deeds, they will do harm to miss four and miss five. Just as it is said that love is deep and responsibility is vital, the eldest lady must understand this truth! But the eldest lady mentioned the third lady's affection and attached great importance to blood and blood. Although she could not abandon her husband because of her love, she could take it lightly, but it was ok In the view of handmaids, how about punishing the people around them? In order to avoid the panic of miss four and miss five, after punishing the servants, how about comforting miss four and miss five again? ”Say, smile to look at Wei Changying, smile deep.
Wei Changying pondered for a moment, understood a little, and asked tentatively: ”Aunt Huang means that four younger sisters and five younger sisters are young, because being in the boudoir, they are inevitably naive and easy to be cheated by servants. What happened before In the end, it is also the people around them who are not good and instigate, which leads to the gap between our sisters. So now we have to punish, and we should punish these people as well? ”
In fact, Huang put forward this proposal in a grand way, but the key point is only three sentences -
the first sentence is ”rules”.
The second sentence is ”half confused and half unintentional”.
The third sentence is ”the deep responsibility of love”.
Emphasize the importance of rules, determine the culprit of the whole thing, and point out Wei Changying's pity for his younger sisters. Make these three points clear. On the basis of taking these three points into account, it is very clear how to do it.
Originally, the trouble for Wei Changying was that if she didn't punish her cousin, she couldn't bear it.
The problem is that she was favored by the old lady song. Even if she didn't punish the two cousins clearly, she would only show her dissatisfaction with them. There are servants in charge swarmed forward, stepping on the third room to please themselves.
After all, Sanfang weishengyi is weak and incompetent, and Pei's family is inferior. There is nothing in this room that can be compared with other rooms. Originally, I lived carefully, and then offended the eldest daughter of Da Fangdi, who was deeply liked by the old lady of Song Dynasty. How could I live a good life?