Chapter 360 (1/2)
This topic is not easy to answer, so Fang Tianxing had to say: ”it's gender that determines the difference in thinking mode, and it's the stereotyped image of men and women in society. What the society thinks men and women are like, it will add this impression on him. For example, some girls will think that they can be unreasonable and even proud of some unruly and capricious films played by girls at some time. But it doesn't mean that their thinking preference is like this. They just act unreasonable and get used to it.
Our society is used to encouraging men's instrumental qualities: self-confidence, independence, ambition, leadership and determination. These characteristics need to be based on calm, strong logic and interest analysis.
Women are encouraged to be more expressive: gentle, kind, sensitive and compassionate. These traits need to be based on emotional concern, moral concern, and experiential concern
”I think love is the most wonderful thing. A thorough romanticist, the value that love brings to him lies in inspiration and breakthrough. Before Qiong Yao and other people's love affairs were rampant, marriage was right. You are a civil servant and I am a teacher. We all have city registered permanent residence. Marriage is a thorough economic activity, which aims to reproduce and protect property.
Ordinary people pursue a right marriage, a realistic way of life, which is similar to what they want to buy for as much as they spend. It's not that it's bad. It's this way of life. It's not that bad.
Later I realized that it was the lack of an experience, the experience of living for love and burning for others. Humanism pursues the pleasure and satisfaction of human beings. It's similar to that I spent a dollar and didn't necessarily get a dollar. I took it to catch the doll, but I didn't catch it, but I realized the feeling of catching the doll. ” Xia aruan said with a look of longing.
”But love is very unfair. People who are always loved have no fear and can't get eternal desire and dissatisfaction. Many people have never had love in their whole life, but their life has passed. It can be said that love is the source of all injustice in the world, and also the most uncontrolled force.
We see a lot of love phenomenon, the essence is from the nature of reproduction. The different psychology of men and women are extended on this basis. Indeed, not everyone can enjoy the feeling of being loved. The better the person, the more likely he or she is to be loved, and vice versa. ” Fang Tianxing said with some loss.
”But these things don't prevent love from being a beautiful thing. Love is destined to be together, but it's also destined not to be together. Love is a dream that can't be obtained and lost.
Love is the ultimate release, but also can not release. Love is the golden breeze and jade dew. Once we meet, we will win countless reunions in the world. We don't know where to go. Peach blossom still laughs at the miss of spring breeze. Love is the most beautiful thing that people create and the most unrealistic fantasy Xia Arun's words are full of love.
Fang Tianxing a little incredulous asked: ”love is really as good as you said.”
”In fact, there are two women in every man's life, at least two, a red rose and a white rose. If you get the red rose, the red one becomes a smear of mosquito blood on the wall, and the white one is the bright moonlight in front of the bed
In fact, our generation does not believe in love, but because they attach more importance to love, they are more cautious in many times.
While cautiously looking forward to it, he says that he no longer believes in love, but he will always be moved easily. In fact, this is probably the true face of many young people in their feelings. ” Xia aruan said to Tianxing.