Chapter 279 (1/2)
Feng Du let Wang Tianming understand this, not to change them, just to understand that they can't give you affirmation, not because you are not good enough, but because they don't have this ability. It's their sorrow, not your fault.
As a child, what can we do? We should try our best to forgive our parents' imperfections, accept our own imperfections, and finally reach reconciliation with ourselves and childhood.
This is too complicated to say, but slowly, you will feel your own change, and only after you change, will your parents' negative comments lose so much lethality.
Well, after years of cultivation, Wang Tianming can now point coldly at them. As parents get older, they will gradually change. Now the relationship with my parents has been much more relaxed, and my parents are willing to affirm my achievements, but occasionally my habitual expression is still negative. In terms of personal experience, it may be happier to communicate hard but not to expect and demand their change.
Wang Tianming doesn't know how to live in life. Although he has lived for decades, he will still be confused in the face of this problem. Fang Tianxing took Wang Tianming to the construction site.
Wang Tianming, who graduated from a famous university, unexpectedly went into the construction site to work. The local recruiters were shocked. After he was brought here, Fang Tianxing left. He needed to understand everything by himself.
When he first arrived at the construction site, Wang Tianming worked with Liu Changfeng. Liu Changfeng is more than 70 years old, his face is already full of wrinkles, and there are only a few white hairs on his bald head, still standing stubbornly. His height is not high, only about 1.6 meters. With his dark skin and shriveled muscles, he looks very weak.
Liu Changfeng's appearance is not pleasant, and there is no resemblance to the kind little old man on the street. When he smiles, his yellow teeth are exposed, and his eyes are full of cunning. When he first met Liu Changfeng, Fang Tianxing felt that there was something indecent about him that 70 year old people should not have.
Liu Changfeng is the most low-end handyman on the construction site. He is a serious ”coolie” without craftsmanship. He will be arranged to do different jobs every day, taking half of the salary of others and making several times of the effort of others.
But Wang Tianming didn't even have the advantage of his strength, so he naturally became a more low-end handyman. He followed his ”leader” Liu Changfeng every day and rushed to every inch of the land on the construction site.
On the first day of work, Wang Tianming followed Liu Changfeng, pushing concrete to the concrete workers, two shovel and a trolley. Liu Changfeng is a lazy man. Every time he hoes concrete, he gently hoes half of the shovel and slowly puts it in the cart. He told Wang Tianming, ”it's not tiring to hoe like this. The most important thing is that when those in charge come to hang around, he will be happy to see you working.”
”What if I can't finish this job?” Wang Tianming questioned Liu Changfeng discontentedly.
”When will the work be finished on the construction site?” Liu Changfeng's words made Wang Tianming speechless, so he didn't go on and continued to work steadfastly.
Liu Changfeng and Wang Tianming pushed slowly, and the watering workers poured slowly. If the concrete was not pushed in time, they sat down to have a rest and smoke. No one urges anyone to hurry up. Only when the leaders come, can all the talents grasp the work in hand. As soon as the leader left, Liu Changfeng said ”no money, give him a fart.”.
Slowly and leisurely work all morning, 11:30 off work time, less than 11:00 everyone began to rest. Liu Changfeng took out a box of Yimeng Mountain cigarettes in his pocket and said to another worker, ”come on, Lao Liu, can I give you some?”