Chapter 276 (1/2)

”I worked for more than ten years and paid monthly salary. As a result, I didn't save any money for her at home. The middle-aged woman saved money, so she used the money to buy her washbasin, bed sheet, quilt and get married. Soon after marriage, they have children. In order to support their children, they no longer give money to their parents every month.

But the countryside is always busy, always asking for money, all kinds of reasons, even the villagers to Beijing also live in our home, free to eat and drink, also have to buy tickets. Ten years later, my mother had a heart attack and was rescued in the hospital. When my uncle learned about it, he came to ask for a crime. My brother and I were minors at that time, and my father worked alone at home and abroad.

After he came, he sat for a long time without any substantial help. He left without going to the hospital to see my mother. I didn't know his intention until he left. Fortunately, he walked fast, otherwise I would have to beat him.

Feng Du said to Tang Lan, a middle-aged woman, ”don't be silly. The premise of helping your relatives is to live your own life first. No one on earth turns. You're not their heaven. If you don't support it, it won't collapse. When you can't support it, it will collapse. You are now a full person, the whole family is not hungry, you have relatives around you, there will be children behind you, then you are the day. ”

Fang Tianxing also said with emotion: ”at that time, most of the parents in rural areas were backward in ideas. Now it is the 23rd century, but their ideas still stay before the 21st century. Although they are in the same society, they have long been divorced from society.

They think that if they are admitted to a good high school and a good university, they will be able to have a stable job after graduation, buy a house in the city, get married, have children, and enjoy a carefree life, making people feel promising and able to look up.

You didn't work hard in those years. When you are old, you regret it. You want to understand it. But now the society has changed. It's not their year. What the society needs now is all-round talents, not nerds who can only take exams. It's also very important to know art, music, sports and games. It's more important to make money. Physical and mental health is more important. If you only let one person read, and don't let him contact the society, it will go wrong. If we can't integrate into this society, we will be marginalized and lose our foothold.

In the past, when I was admitted to university, I was assigned jobs, and my house was settled in the city. However, decades later, it was not the same as it was at the beginning. The prices of house prices soared, and the prices of house prices in ordinary small cities could not be looked up to by young people.

The money for a house is not earned by ordinary people all their lives. College students can buy a house after working for several years, not to mention the expenses for their children's education, parents' medical care, their own life and so on. Those are all big expenses. Now it's hard to get ahead without parents, contacts and resources.

But they are still doing their spring and autumn dream, their grasp of the future is weak. In contrast, those with high social status can seize the opportunity when they are young to provide their children with good material conditions and better education. They have already bought a house and car and even arranged their work. They can do their own things happily and will not be overwhelmed by social pressure.

The reform and opening up in the 1980s brought about a wave of dividends of social change, which made modern people naturally feel that it is the standard for a generation to change their own destiny, and that those who work hard can also take their families to upgrade their class.

However, in the past 70 years since the founding of new China, only this time has the door of the times been slowly closed. Many of my father's friends got rich in the tide, but most of them didn't survive for more than ten years. They lost all kinds of wealth, and the times made heroes. Too many people regard the bonus of the times as their personal ability.

In fact, the children of ordinary families around us do not choose to take the postgraduate entrance examination after graduation, but choose to study abroad, because they can find better jobs. In order to be able to live in this world, bear a huge pressure, even breathing has become a luxury thing.