Chapter 190 (1/2)

Fang Tianxing does not care about the smile, soon mengge with Fang Tianxing back to his home, the family received Fang Tianxing very warmly. After learning Fang Tianxing's identity, mengge's parents inadvertently asked Fang Tianxing to raise money to help mengge receive plastic surgery, so that he could have the appearance of a normal person and live a normal life.

Fang Tianxing hesitated, but mengge's parents knelt down to plead. Although Fang Tianxing hesitated, he agreed to them.

Fang Tianxing helps them to contact charities. After many public crises, charities now are more and more strict in the use of donations. It is difficult to achieve a clear objective management of accounts because of the point-to-point nature of donations. Because the money into the personal account, most recipients will be as their own money, how to spend, depends on the conscience of the parties.

After the charity asked to raise money, it must record every expense of the money in detail. Fang Tianxing asked mengge's family for their opinions, and they agreed. Because they were going to attend the year-end exam, Fang Tianxing said to them, ”I have to go now. I have to take the exam. If I have any trouble, please let me know.”

Mengge's family said, ”you go first. It's really troublesome this time.”

Fang Tianxing went back to the perfect university and didn't take care of the things here. Charity organizations arrange activities to help mengge raise donations. When they know that mengge has the talent of singing, they are ready to show his ability to raise donations. The audience may think that this guy is very interesting, so they say, then you sing.

So according to the arrangement of the charity, mengge sang loudly in front of everyone in the square. Mengge didn't care if anyone was listening to him. Singing and singing, mengge suddenly felt quiet around, and only heard his own voice reverberate behind.

The pedestrians stopped in the square. These travelers, who met by chance, may not know that their simple and sincere applause encouraged and strengthened mengge's dream. Mengge's performances have been very successful. Maybe from then on, in mengge's heart, being a singer has become his dream. He felt that his future should be with music.

For example, the original purpose of fund-raising is to do plastic surgery, but the amount of fund-raising is too low to cure completely. Is it OK for family members to temporarily change the purpose of donation and expenses, and carry out palliative care and hospice care.

Therefore, this kind of help seeking is only suitable for small amount of money, because in fact, this kind of money can not be effectively targeted and supervised, and if it is too serious, it will hurt the donors and make them feel humiliated.

It is important to have a clear purpose and a sound expenditure account in charitable assistance, but it is not the only one.

Out of respect for the recipients, it is equally important not to hurt their already fragile self-esteem. Otherwise, these poor and unfortunate people will be deprived of material resources because of their fate, and they will be deprived again in spirit because of the guilt of being given. In this way, the rescue will become harm.

Most of the time, the staff of charitable organizations, instead of helping the people in need, turn against each other and distrust each other. Why is that.

In fact, the way volunteers communicate may not be appropriate. Most of the time, the pain we feel in our interpersonal relationship is related to feeling rejected. Sometimes this refusal is obvious, such as the sudden departure of a lover, or being betrayed and alienated by a friend.

And sometimes the rejection can be very subtle, such as you give the other person a smile in the eyes, but the other person looked away. Or you summon up the courage to send a wechat to the other party, but it takes a long time for the other party to reply briefly.

Feel the society full of kindness and envy, in fact, most ordinary people as long as pad a chin, nose only 10000 yuan can become a lot of good-looking. And there is no need to care about the problem that the next generation is not good-looking after plastic surgery, after all, good-looking oneself can attract the opposite sex with better conditions.