Chapter 187 (2/2)
Fang Tianxing saves a lot of energy, because he won't think about what he can't change, which doesn't mean he won't change or deal with it negatively.
When I do well what I can do, I will no longer strive for perfection. Today's people are more and more afraid to pay, the longer they live, the more cautious they are, and they can no longer be desperate. Encounter things always have to weigh the pros and cons, a lot of things are not so pure, but show sincere valuable.
Everyone is afraid of being hurt, wearing thick armor does not show a trace of vulnerability, sincerity is hidden under the armor, for many things become numb.
Originally, the pain that can hurt people's heart is not painful, or the so-called viewpoint is just for the benefit of blooming, insensitive.
The guy who caters to the public's liking has a good time in this world. He insists on being rejected by people. It turns out that this is the best way to make his point of view his own weapon and change it in order to cater to the readers.
There is no position of their own, as if it has never existed, perfectly become a nightmare in people's hearts, occupy the dark and exist in people's hearts, suspicion, impulse and other vulnerable places.
A network author is always different from ordinary people. He has the feeling of compassion, does not make use of the weakness of people's hearts to make profits, and guides the positive forces in people's hearts.
The risk of sincerity is the lowest, but sometimes we have to be sincere, that is, no one wants to pay attention to them. We are too tired and irritable, but after all, we have our own responsibility to be patient in front of others. I can't tell anyone. I'm upset. I don't want to talk to him.
When you don't want to talk to anyone, it's not that you treat others sincerely, it's that you don't even want to face yourself and can't treat yourself sincerely, let alone face others.
The biggest obstacle will become the blind spot of self emotion management and the pain point of relationship management. In fact, many roots are still in the mode of getting along with each other, and they will grow up again when they see awareness.
The ultimate goal of love is to let people find themselves. What are you like? Most of you don't know before you fall in love. After you fall in love, you will be beaten back to your original shape. I found that I was so ugly, so greedy, so selfish and so hideous.
Love is not what you think, it just stimulates people's desires. All kinds of other desires will emerge one by one during this period. Finally, you stand naked in front of your lover and watch him go away.
Only when you are covered with bruises can you understand what self-control is, what the ability to love others is, and what real tenderness and kindness are.
If you don't have the ability to be honest, you can't tolerate them. I think the core is how to be sincere. If a person can only be sincere in interpersonal communication, then this kind of wish you go out half of your life and come back as a teenager.
Of course, from a completely political point of view, sincerity is the essence of interpersonal relationship. But from the perspective of life, your sincerity may not make others think you are sincere. In addition, in a complex social relationship, there are often a small number of people who are like-minded with you. You can't choose your leaders, colleagues, business partners, etc., which makes people feel that your sincerity is a manifestation of high Eq.
But people's feelings and energy are limited. It's not impossible to love the people around you sincerely. If you are sincere to people, you will gain the corresponding sincerity. It's really a beautiful feeling.
Fang Tianxing likes to be an online writer more and more. The number of readers is increasing every day, and he can harvest different readers every day,
Solve all kinds of puzzling problems, help them solve some small things, bring a little convenience to their life, Fang Tianxing's heart also harvest a little surprise.