Chapter 186 (2/2)

Fang Tianxing began to feel that as long as you have been working hard, it is really the kind of ceaseless struggle and efforts, the world will always have a chance to surprise you.

Dreams and opportunities, many of these things, do have the element of luck, although when I just realized a small step, it is very difficult for me to get out of the pain of overexerting bruises and gouging out rotten meat. The most terrible thing for children is that they lose their spirituality and can't feel the tension of life.

For anyone, detours and temporary frustration are very normal. The key is whether you choose to return to your comfort zone and give up your dream and life.

Is it good to take a detour? Of course, it's not good. Don't go if you don't go. Once you go wrong, it's too difficult to pull back a game. But most of the time, detours are not what we want to take. In the case of limited resources and conditions, we have to step on the wrong road without panic.

There's no other way but to survive. Just don't break the pot. If you want to rush out of this tunnel, you should have a clear goal and try to do it. And in the process of your serious, a lot of positive feedback will accumulate, with the increase of positive feedback mechanism in your life.

Believe me, your mood and the surrounding environment will have a much better attitude towards you. If there is no fixed action, then please put down your restless surging, what should you do? Your heart is higher than the sky and you don't want to pay. It's also a waste of time to hurt others and yourself.

Failure is naturally bad, it will bring losses, sometimes people can't afford it, the so-called one mistake into eternal regret, the so-called regret.

Many strong people refuse to fail. They say that they should make success a habit, or victory a habit, which is reasonable. However, there are also differences.

The difference lies in who is the leader and who is the master between yourself and right, success and victory.

In other words, do you want to succeed and win, or do you have to succeed and win. Don't underestimate the difference. If you want to succeed, you are the master. You can succeed or not.

You must succeed. Success is the master. You are only the executor. If you fail, you are unqualified.

For them, success and victory are just a dimension of life. They enjoy it, so they strive to pursue it.

But this is not the only important thing in their life. Besides success, they still enjoy life, friendship, love, leisure, fun and so on. Many times, they make great efforts, but they don't lose themselves.

For many pseudo strong people, they are executors rather than masters. For them, success and victory are the whole of life. Life is to fight for victory and correctness. Without victory and correctness, life is meaningless.

So, in their smooth and successful, you see they are extremely powerful, as if invincible. But once they encounter difficulties and failures, they often start to panic.

Because the foundation for their existence and self-confidence is gone, they are red faced, flustered, misbehaved and full of flaws.

They are pseudo strong, because they are actually weak.

There are problems in our education. What we learn is not meaningless. Playing games and learning are two different things. In the era of thinking that games are poisons, I insist that entering Internet cafes does not mean that they are bad children.

Of course, the experience of love tells me that learning should be done, love should be talked about, and games should be played. It's just that you can't afford to lose the other. Class to listen to, homework to write, examination to the results.

So you see, compared with blindly chasing and blocking, how to guide children to deal with these things is what we should do.