Chapter 708 (2/2)
I was relieved secretly, but I heard Xin go to the disease and said: ”the reason why you can't make a comparison is precisely because you have made a comparison, right?”
In my heart, ”what do you mean?”
”indeed, as like as two peas in the real world, there is no such thing as two people who are exactly the same. You do not compare the hypothesis of” she ”with your girlfriend, but compare it with her sister, right?
Little gege's face of the enlightenment, Shutong's face of surprise, and I, a face of blood red.
This kid is terrible! It turns out that the purpose of his question is not to see whether I will choose ”her” or ”fringe”, but whether I can accept his ”hypothesis”!
Xin goes to quickly eliminate the expression and says: ”in psychology, the so-called emotion is the attitude experience generated by whether the objective things meet the needs. What is the attitude experience? To put it bluntly, it's just our own feeling. We Chinese people have some old sayings, such as ”carrots, vegetables, love for each other”, and ”beauty is in the eyes of the beholder”. In fact, that's the truth. If you like her, she is unique, but human is a kind of perceptual creature. For every different person or thing, there will be different emotions. For example, if you like traveling, you can climb The attraction of the great wall and the Forbidden City to you may be the same. You like shopping, so the temptation to buy clothes and cosmetics is similar. But what if you add a precondition? For example, time is limited. You can only go to the great wall and the Forbidden City. You don't have enough money in your pocket. You have to choose between clothes and cosmetics. In this way, there will be a comparison and a choice. This truth is put in the feelings. It's the same. Even if it's the same friendship, kinship or love, there will be some subtle differences. For two different women, you may have some differences with someone Love deeper and love someone shallower. Even if love is as deep, the reason for falling in love may not be the same as the way to love. The reason you like her is her pride and confidence and her gentleness and consideration for you. The reason you like her is her tenderness and pity, which arouses your desire for protection and makes you want to give her gentleness and consideration. As long as it is two different people, it must be in a certain place The one and only one is the one and only as like as two peas. Each of them is unique, because each person is unique. There is another explanation for the different love of radish and vegetables. Each of them has their own reasons for falling in love with each other. What if there is really no way to make comparison, it can be two identical ”unique”, the reasons and the degree of love. Two It's the same, how can we make a choice? So you can't compare the hypothetical ”she” with your girlfriend's, because ”she” doesn't exist, doesn't hold water, and ”she” doesn't exist, doesn't hold water, just because you compare ”she” with your sister, am I right? ”What Xin Quji said seems profound, but it's simple and easy to understand. But because the speed of speech is too fast, Shutong and Xiaoge's brains obviously can't keep up with each other. They work hard to think and chew, and their reactions are still slow. However, I wish I didn't understand what he said.
”The premise I just said is the key to making a choice. If there is no restriction of” must make a choice ”, then there is no need to compare people or things you like. Even if there are so-called” preconditions ”, people will try their best to deceive themselves to choose to forget, or simply to break the rules It's the nature of human beings that the existence of ”she” is superior to the secular ethics, which is the inevitable mistake of human beings. Most of them are the necessity of some kind of emotion or emotional development. ”Xin Quji's accurate analysis said:” you deny the establishment of ”she” because of the emotional disapproval? In the three laws of the multiverse, there is a saying that ”everything is three”. That is to say, there are always three possibilities, three situations, or three forms of things. I like this saying, so I also like the number of ”three”. The plot of predestined love brother is very obvious, and the evidence is solid, so I don't need to do any further verification. What about you? Will you accept or reject her feelings? As a psychiatrist, after knowing your situation, this is the first thing I need to make clear. In fact, even if I am not a doctor, I am just an onlooker and insider, the first thing I will think about is the result. The most curious thing is how you will respond to your sister's love complex. Do you have the same attitude towards your sister towards you Feelings? I'm afraid you still don't know. When Shu Tong asked me for advice, the most worried question was not about fate, which doesn't need any proof, but how to face such a relationship as fate. In other words, she was worried about what kind of outcome the fate of the brotherly complex would eventually evolve into - whether the Brotherhood was established or not. It's not hard to judge whether the result is true or not. It depends on the attitude of both sides. Your sister's attitude is very clear. The key is your attitude, that is, do you also have a sister in love complex? The answer is no more than three possibilities: ”yes”, ”no”, ”maybe”
I'm very glad that I can't see my expression, otherwise I really don't know how to face myself, and my voice trembles a little, saying: ”since you have identified me as a patient, you can prove that you think I have it, right?”
”That's right.” Xin Quji did not politely give his conclusion at all.
PS: for life, I have to endure some disgusting things, intriguing talks and laughs, vainglorious faces, flirtatious banter, and Howling songs hiding in my home, which can't be stopped peacefully. It's driving me crazy. I jumped more yesterday, later today, I can't live in the big house, review.