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Mrs. Huo was stunned for a few seconds. She originally meant to let mu ziyao show up. Maybe Xia Li would listen and come back. But she didn't expect mu ziyao to say, ”but you know how chaotic the situation is there. I'm really afraid of what will happen. If Xia Xia Xia has something, what should I do? You can't understand my idea I'm really worried. I'm worried every day. ”
”Ha ha.” Mu ziyao had no choice but to smile and stroked her forehead: ”why can't I experience your mood? I also have a daughter! Every time I go out, I'm also worried. I always pay attention to the news over there. I want to know whether she is good or not, especially when there is no signal. I always think that something will happen. But now, I'm used to it
”Sometimes, the more you pay attention to something, that thing will torture you. You might as well relax and not think about it. Whatever happens is good. Just as you say, it's OK. Just let it go. When Xiali really has something, it will come to you. Isn't it better?”
When the time comes, it will be too hard for children to know. Otherwise, it will be too easy for them to know.
”I know that's the truth, but sometimes I can't do it. I can't help but pay attention to them. I just want to know how they are, how they are, whether they are happy...”
Maybe it's the reason why she lost Xia Li for so many years. Since she got back Xia Li, Mrs. Huo's mood began to change. She felt that all her efforts were for the sake of her children, and she just wanted her children to be better and happier.
”You, ah, it's because you pay too much attention. In fact, there's no need to do this. If we can divert our attention, we will find that the outside world is different. We can also relax a little. You are too nervous to relax at all. Think about it. If you are like this, what can you do for your children? ”
”yes, you are Xia Li's mother, but you know that you and Xia Li have been together for so many years, which can't be made up in a few words. Xia Li is still willing to talk and take care of you, so you should be happy and not expect so much.”
Mu ziyao is not really able to understand the kind of parents who regard their children as their own private property. They always think that the children are born by themselves, and all of them should live according to their own ideas. They can't have independent consciousness and disobey themselves. Otherwise, they are not filial. But why don't they want to? Why?
Children will grow up, and they will have their own life after they grow up. Should they always do their own things according to their ideas? Such a long time, it will certainly happen a sensational thing!
Mu ziyao discovered this situation of Mrs. Huo very early, but at that time she was still reluctant to say. She thought that it would be valuable if she finally found her daughter back. But now, thinking about it, it is not the same thing at all. In this way, Xiali will be more and more far away from her, and there will be no intimacy at all.
”I know that you are very excited and afraid of losing again because you found Xia Li, but you should know that sometimes Xia Li doesn't want you to know so much, and doesn't want you to manage so much? It's not because of anything else, it's just because it puts too much pressure on children! ”
”You may not like what I say next, but I still want to say, because you are my friend, so I don't want to see you cry in the future, and I don't want to make you unhappy.”