Chapter 331 (2/2)

As long as one person chooses to be tolerant, all the others will choose to be tolerant!

Of course, the word ”forbearance” here is not a commendatory term.

To put it bluntly, it is cowardly and incompetent!

Just like the ”Mo Ming” in the past, when these people bullied ”Mo Ming”, he always put up with it in silence. Even if Mingming had a backer in his family, he would not say anything. First, he was not willing to say it. Second, he did not dare to say

In fact, it's OK to say that the former one is my father and mother, and has a cheap sister. Although they are all family members, and Yan Ningxue dotes on Mo Ming in every way, but ”Mo Ming” has always had a knot in his heart!

This knot is: Yan Ningxue is not his own mother!

How to say

In fact, there is often a reorganization family like Mo Ming on TV. In fact, it is very normal that there will be estrangement between children and stepparents.

Mo Ming used to have a few friends around her. In general, the relationship between the child and the stepparents is awkward, neither good nor bad.

This may not be understood by people who have not experienced or witnessed it.

It's a strange feeling that someone who has nothing to do with you suddenly comes to your home and you call him father or her mother.

Many children can't say it at all, because it's not their father or mother after all. Of course, this is not the biggest problem.

As a matter of fact, the real reason why they can't get out of their mouth is that they can't pass their own level. They used to have their own father and mother. They are the children of their parents, but now let them call another person's father or mother. This feeling It's like letting them betray their own parents. It's painful and miserable!

And it's the same in the eyes of the stepparent.

In TV, those reorganized families come from the second spring of their parents. The reason why the father found the stepmother was that the father and the stepmother had a new love, and the mother found the stepfather because the mother and the stepfather had a new love.As a matter of fact, the things in the TV series are really too beautiful. When a person reaches the age of 40, it is difficult to have love again.

The vast majority of this kind of father looking for stepmother, mother looking for stepfather is for the sake of children, think this can give children better family affection, also give children better security.

As a matter of fact, in most cases, this kind of reorganization will not only not give children better kinship, but also make them more evasive and afraid of kinship, and even make them more isolated. Even they themselves will be in children's college.

But it's true to protect.

Part of the reason is that parents really want to find a partner, but this kind of partner has nothing to do with romance. They are more like a habit, getting used to the habit of two people's life.

Of course, there is no absolute, which does not rule out the possibility that old trees will sprout and withered trees will spring again, but the probability is really small in reality.

For step parents, it's strange to get along with their children. The child has no blood relationship with him. He knows him because he and his parents have come together. They are embarrassed when they are called parents by a strange child. Therefore, at this time, the child may become the parent of him and the child Obstacles together.

Mo Ming has met several girls before, all of them are this kind of reorganized family. The mother dies, and then the father finds a stepmother. The stepmother is very kind to the child, but this can not eliminate the estrangement between the two sides, so the stepmother will try every means to marry the girl out.

That's the reality. It's not going to be that good.

After all, TV drama is only a form of artistic expression, which is based on the reality and beautifies the reality.