Chapter 272 (2/2)
Got it?
If you mess with each other at this time, it's really easy to be blacklisted
And, to say the least, even if you find the roommate who has a good relationship with the goddess, it doesn't mean you can get closer. On the contrary, it may have the opposite effect.
For example, a girl sees a boy who has a good relationship with her good friend. If the girl is a normal person, what do you think of her?
She will certainly stay away!
Why?
The reason is very simple, she will think you are her best friend's boyfriend, or you want to chase your best friend!
In this case, a girl with the right three outlooks will take the initiative to rely on it?
Because she has to take care of her friendship with good friends!
With this idea, the goddess will only regard you as an acquaintance, but will only be acquaintances, no matter what the reason, will never go further.
Even if you really participate in her life through her roommate's relationship and go out to play with her, she will keep a psychological distance from you.
This is a kind of psychological exclusion!
She has already drawn a white line in her heart, isolating you from the white line, and will never allow herself to cross the white line.
Normally speaking, a boy chasing a girl, if the girl has no feeling for the boy, it's nothing, because the feeling can be cultivated slowly.
But once let this girl exclude you from the psychology, then wait for the end of the calf!
But if you show the desire to move forward, the girl is not a fool. You, a stranger, suddenly have a hot fight with your good friend, and then you stretch out your claws to her. What do you want her to think?Are you a scum? Eating from the bowl and looking at the pot? Restless?
Moreover, it will make her feel that you are very dangerous and resourceful, and she will not be close to you!
Of course, this is just a saying of a family. Many people regard the words that seem reasonable on the surface, but actually no one has ever practiced them as wisdom and strategies for life.
Even now, there are many so-called ”emotionists”
They wantonly take all kinds of rhythms, equate feelings with money and materials, distort human feelings, distort human hearts, and spread theories that have never been proved, or that only a small number of blind cats run into dead mice, but have no practical basis at all.
Not only that, these people also wantonly gathered some believers and spread some seemingly reasonable but actually anti human words in public.
To put it bluntly, these people are no different from a group of swindlers. They are making use of these seemingly reasonable theories, but in fact they have no basis at all to bewitch people's hearts and seek benefits for themselves.
Mo Ming always thinks that it's stupid to give people complicated days. Life should be simple. Most of the problems in the world are found by human beings themselves.
For example, the answer to a black-and-white question is either right or wrong, but some people just want to drag the incident to the gray area, giving people a mysterious answer that is both right and wrong.
People living in the world should be simple, just like the practice of this kind of thing, should be down-to-earth, step-by-step, there is a return to pay, good conduct, slowly practice, accumulate strength, one day will always achieve the desired state.