Chapter 81 (1/2)

In the common sense of outsiders, the children of the big family are usually some dandies. They are ignorant, they only know how to be extravagant and extravagant, and never think of making progress.

However, the fact is usually contrary to the imagination of outsiders. In general, the children of the big family are obviously better than the children of ordinary families, whether in their temperament or in dealing with some emergencies

Different families mean different growth environments. If the children of big families grow up in that big family environment, they must learn what the big talents know.

Just like Yan Qingming, he grew up in a family like Yan's family. In addition, he was the eldest son of the Yan Family's master. From the moment of his birth, he was carrying a burden that ordinary people's children never carried.

It is precisely because of this burden that he appears more intelligent than his peers.

Well, be wise

This is definitely not a derogatory term.

On the contrary, he is not an ordinary young man in many ways.

Even if some places are inferior to others, we should also see the objective reasons. After all, there are no perfect people in the world.

What's more, Yan Qingming is only a 16-year-old boy, only two years older than ”Mo Ming”! Even if he is manic sometimes, it doesn't mean he is such a person.

Boys between the ages of 16 and 18 are usually immature and sometimes even childish.

Girls are more knowledgeable, such as Yan Qingcheng. In Mo Ming's impression, Gao Leng's sister is more mature than her peers.

It is also because he is not one, Yan Qingming knows how to reflect!

In the past, when he played with his peers, he basically crushed each other. Occasionally, he would fight with those older people who had traveled abroad. Basically, he was in a decisive position.

However, this time, he even lost to a person smaller than himself, which made him a little unable to accept, so he began to reflect on what the problem was

Reflection is a good thing. The sage also said, ”I will examine myself three times every day”, not to mention you are an ordinary family son, right?

Daily reflection can make people progress.

It's not terrible to lose. What's terrible is to feel self pity after losing. If you lose, you should reflect and summarize carefully and find out the reason why you lost. You can't make such a mistake again next time. This is the right way.

It's just like falling into a pit. You have to learn to look at the road. You have to learn to be careful. You can't go out and fall into the pit tomorrow. You can't go out and fall into the pit tomorrow. When you go out, you will fall into the pit

Other people's normal reflection, is to review bit by bit, admit their own failure, admit that they are inferior to others, find out where they are inferior to others, and then redouble their efforts to make up for their weaknesses and make themselves stronger and better than themselves.

However, his Yan Qingming is more powerful.

He sat there alone and reflected for a long time, and the result was:

it was not that he was too weak, but that he was too strong.

Alas -

how to say

Indeed, it is mo Ming who is so powerful that he can blow up the sky with one fart

Well -

you've been reflecting for a long time, and you've found an excuse not to let yourself lose face