Chapter 797 (1/2)
At about eleven o'clock in the afternoon, Li Hongwei and they arrived at Li Meifeng's house.
Of course, the old father-in-law's family has no empty hands. Three and four gifts are indispensable. Pork, tobacco, wine and gift box are necessary.
However, after all, it is because Li Hongwei is about to marry Li Meifeng. These four gifts are not particularly valuable. It should be a big gift right away. If the gift is too heavy, it will not be able to take it next time.
In terms of discussing the details of marriage, the Li family is not very careful. After all, the children do not live and work in the local area, and the vacation time is limited, so they can avoid it.
Li's father patted his chest and said frankly: ”I'm a married girl, and I'm not a girl seller, so I don't like to make those empty heads and brain.”
Mei Zhonghua and Li's father are about the same age. Because of Li Hongwei's marriage, he was one generation lower than his uncle. Hearing this, he also agreed: ”uncle, you're right. Indeed, we are married and not selling girls. I'm also a girl. I just want to think about the ability of my daughter to get married, and I don't want to ask for financial gifts ! What are you doing as a dad? I don't think much about the other things. ”
Li's father also knows that Mei Xiaoran and Li Meifeng are classmates. Facing Mei Zhonghua, he really has the kind of old father's affection for each other. All of them have daughters. Of course, they should be compassionate.
However, there should be rules and should go. People can't say that girls get married. They don't care what their parents do.
”Brother Mei, you're right. That's the gift.”
Seeing that it was time to have lunch, the two families chatted while eating, and all that should be said was agreed. Today is the 28th of the twelfth lunar month. There is no time before the new year, so we should have a big ceremony on the third day of the lunar new year, get married on the sixth day of the lunar new year, and go back to my mother's home on the seventh day of the Lunar New year
After hearing this, Li Meifeng couldn't help but ask: ”after getting married, it's not three days to go back home. Why don't you decide to go to the eighth day of junior high school directly?”
”You child, you don't know the old rules, do you? What we pay attention to here is that seven do not go out, eight do not go home, the eighth day can not go back to his mother's home, and the eighth day you also have to go to work, then you can only order seven days? ”
”Well, do as you say.”
Li Meifeng did not understand these rules. She knew only a little about them, but now she knows them.
After all, the Li family knew from the national day that after their daughter got married at the end of the year, they should have prepared almost everything. The only thing that was missing was these etiquette and rules. As long as they finished the scene. It's not that the Li family really value these broken rules, but if you live in the countryside, you have to follow some unwritten rural conventions. If you say that you married your daughter quietly, the villagers will have to stab your spine to death, and they will say that you secretly married your daughter, it must be in your heart, otherwise why don't you dare to let everyone know? Maybe it's because the girl has a big stomach!
To tell you the truth, the country is a kind of people who like to be reasonable and like to watch jokes.
Originally, because Li Meifeng was admitted to university, the Li family was particularly eye-catching in the village. Now I don't know how many people are staring at the joke!
So no matter what attitude the Li family is now, they have to make the wedding a success. This is the status quo.
Mei Zhonghua is a man of thick and thin. After coming out of the countryside for so many years, he has a lot of brains to deal with. Especially when dealing with rural people, he has more experience.
After discussing with Li Fu, he decided to come back to the third day of the third day of the lunar calendar.
Of course, after all, it's the new year's pass. After all, it's time to leave. No one is idle.