Chapter 408 (1/2)
”I have five out of ten, and as for learning, this is the first stage of life in the eyes of Confucius.”
”At the age of 15, as for learning, we should roughly understand which direction we should work hard in and what to learn. We can't waste time.”
”Of course, this sentence does not mean that you don't have to learn before you are 15, but that you don't have to set your own aspirations before you are 15, because it's too early. Doing that and doing this before is just a joke and can't be true.”
”When people are young, they can aspire to be a great person, responsible for themselves or beneficial to society, but there is no need to set their dreams too specific and clear. Such a wish is too early and clear, which will limit people's imagination.”
”The world will change faster and faster. When you were a teenager, you didn't even know what the world looked like.”
”Most of the time, your goal may just be the continuation of your parents' poetry and distant goals.”
”Life without a dream is a tragedy. What is more serious than this tragedy is that the dream is set up too early and too specific, which will always be new and change. For example, the dream of the girl next door when she was a child may be to grow up and marry a sugar gourd maker, who can eat sweets every day, and then marry a tailor, who can wear new and beautiful clothes every day...”
”With a preliminary basic ambition, the next thing to do is to learn and practice.”
”Learning really doesn't mean repeatedly reviewing, reviewing and repeating. Learning is a habit, learning is practice, doing and experiencing.”
”Learning knowledge doesn't count. If you remember the knowledge, you can only cope with the examination of the school, the investigation of teachers, and the requirements of your parents. You need to experience and practice in life, form a habit, truly feel the benefits of learning, and have a real harvest. That's what it's called, and you will be happy from the bottom of your heart.”
”The second stage of Kong's life is called standing in his thirties.”
”With ambition, and then grope towards the goal direction for 15 years, it is naturally good to get married and start a business. More importantly, we should be able to establish some principles that we should follow in our life. This is the rule after determination.”
”Choosing the good and being stubborn is what needs to be tried and insisted at this stage.”
”When it comes to principles, the bottom line and the general direction, you don't have to be stubborn too early, but if you don't have a spectrum in your heart at the age of 30, it's undoubtedly a very terrible thing.”
”It's a pleasure to have friends coming from afar. This is an important achievement of standing at thirty.”
”If you get in touch with people and society, have your own basic rules of conduct, and can take care of others and yourself, you will have friends willing to communicate with you, and people will come to see you regardless of distance and distance as soon as they have time. Then you will have good contacts and circles, and a good foundation based on society.”
”After that, it was forty years old.”
”After ten years of trial and practice, you can say, uh huh, almost, I'll probably go on like this in my life.”
”Without doubt, there is no doubt. Kong Sheng advocates that it is never too old to learn. How can people have no problem?”
”Not confused is not confused about personal principles. At the age of 40, you should not be confused about your life goals, directions and principles. As for specific things, of course, there will be confusion and changes.”
”At this time, what we should do is not to be angry without knowing. Being angry is a little anger.”
”You're not confused. You need to have concentration and should be mature. Things are temporarily unhappy, others don't understand you, what others think and think of you. Stepping on a horse is someone else's business. There's no need to be angry about it. What should you do?”
”Moreover, the stage before 30 to 40 is the most active period of energy, consciousness and creativity in one's life. It is the peak of so-called life achievements. We need to focus on the efforts and persistence of our previously selected paths and goals.”
”Fifty knows destiny.”
”Five is five fingers, which is the number of a palm. When I was 50, I looked back and walked all the way. It seemed that there was an invisible hand arranging my life. In fact, it was all my way accumulated bit by bit.”
”At this time, don't complain about others. Make your own life and do it yourself. Whether you succeed or not, just be at ease. Everyone is different from others. Your efforts are to prove what kind of life you have.”
”Be angry and forget to eat.”
”When I was young, I didn't decide anything. I might do this and that after a period of time. It seems that nothing is right. Some people do better than you. Being angry and forgetting food is not worth the loss.”
”When it's hard to change, you can do it wholeheartedly. At this time, you don't have to worry about it. There's nothing to hesitate. Just do it before you get old.”
”Everything can't be repeated, so you can only listen to it at 60.” 666 Literature Network