Chapter 1343 (1/2)
Zhou Shengbei Qian answered very simply.
The voice was serious and the eyes were serious.
In fact, cloud painting is just like that. As a result, Zhou Shengbei Qian answered with such solemnity that she was somewhat at a loss.
”Ah Maybe you were young before? Don't know how to take care of people? ” Cloud painting blinks.
Zhou Shengbei Qian said faintly, ”no, it's because I haven't had a girlfriend before.”
“……” The cloud draws a corner of the mouth, ”Oh.”
Zhou Shengbei Qian is several years older than Bo Siqing. At this age, he has no girlfriend No, it's not that you don't have a girlfriend at this age, but you don't have a girlfriend at this age
How to say more and more strange!
”Well, you were too focused on your studies. Just like Bo Siqing, she has a high IQ. She is not around her peers, nor is she on an IQ level. Sometimes, she may miss some ordinary people's emotional life... ” Cloud painting do not know what they are talking about, so embarrassed!
Zhou Shengbei Qian nodded carelessly: ”well, before, I always thought that those girls were not creatures on a planet at all.”
“…… The more you say it, the more you exaggerate. ” Cloud painting drunk, ”then how do you contact people?”
”Learn.” Zhou Shengbei Qian said very simply, ”it's not difficult to learn to contact people.”
Cloud painting is drunk.
It's not hard to learn to get in touch with people?
For a social maniac, it's not necessary to learn how to contact people. It's a natural skill. Even if you don't contact people, it's not comfortable!
But for some people who are afraid of trouble, for people with social barriers, it is simply It's killing me!
People with high intelligence quotient are especially like this, because they can easily understand many things that are difficult for ordinary people to understand. Therefore, ordinary people's topics are not attractive to them. Therefore, the communication between ordinary people usually makes them feel bored, and they prefer to contact with work!
However, Bo Siqing also said before that a high IQ does not mean a low Eq.
The reason why a lot of people think that the EQ of high IQ is definitely low is that many of them are intentional.
Because people with high intelligence quotient are smart enough to know that their low EQ can be forgiven when they work extremely well. In addition, they are tired of social intercourse and tired of doing so-called high EQ, which is actually troublesome communication
In this case, people with high IQ will clearly know where their advantages are and know that they have the right to be proud and willful, and people will forgive them for their IQ!
It's so good that you don't have to deal with the troublesome communication at all.
So, many people with high IQ seem to have low Eq.
In fact, high IQ represents a strong learning ability, and those who can show high EQ are difficult to learn?
Is it really difficult to ignore the inner likes and dislikes and simply learn some behaviors and words that can show high EQ?
No!
When you see leaders and acquaintances, you can ask for a greeting, search for a few sentences, and repeat them back and forth, because the other party doesn't care what you really care about at all?
When you get out of the car, you can open the door for a lady. When chatting with people, follow the words of others, even if it is a lie, as long as it sounds good, such as ”Auntie, you look so young”, for example, a bear child, ”your child is so lively”