Chapter 563 (1/2)
”Why am I angry? If you hadn't been like this and that for a while, could I be angry?” Yunxin was also wronged.
Grandma Zhang caught in the middle and heard a rough idea.
Neither of them is wrong. They are just getting angry with each other.
”I told you, I want to fall in love for a period of time, don't want to get married so early, you don't believe it, you don't believe me, who do you blame!” Shi xiaorou also angrily said.
”You promised me to get married. What else to wait for!” Yunxin still didn't understand Shi xiaorou's idea. ”Besides, you can fall in love when you get married!”
Maybe men think so.
But women's ideas are very different. Marriage and falling in love are two different things. Falling in love is sweet, happy, pressureless and completely enjoyable.
But marriage is different. After marriage, there are many responsibilities. There are still a lot of husband and wife life to deal with, and they have to face having children. There are a lot of things.
Shi xiaorou felt that once she got married, she would have no freedom.
”What kind of love do you have after marriage? You must urge me to have children. After having children, I take care of them. I don't have any time. You haven't considered it for me at all.” Shi xiaorou said angrily and wrongly.
”Women are not like this. You are not alone.” Yunxin blurted out.
But this sentence completely annoyed Shi xiaorou.
What does he mean by this sentence? Are women the tools for their men to have children?
What do they men do when they have children and take care of them!
”What do you mean? You didn't marry me for me at all, but to have children for you!” Shi xiaorou was angry and said dissatisfied.
”Hey, Shi xiaorou, don't be unreasonable. Don't deliberately misinterpret the meaning of my words!” Yunxin also feels very innocent. Why is his thought not on a parallel line with Shi xiaorou.
He means that every woman has to face having children. This is the process that women must go through, not what xiaorou needs to face alone.
As a result, xiaorou misinterpreted his meaning to him.
I can't communicate.
”I'm unreasonable?” Shi xiaorou pointed to herself and looked at Yunxin incredulously. Her face was hurt. ”I'm not married yet. You say I'm unreasonable. If I get married, I'll get it!”
Shi xiaorou often heard that men are different before and after marriage. Men are good to you before marriage and bad to you after marriage.
Originally, xiaorou didn't believe this statement, but now seeing Yunxin's attitude, she had to doubt her idea.
”I, I didn't mean to bully you.” Yunxin was a little helpless. When he knew, xiaorou understood it into another meaning.
”Well, you two don't quarrel.” grandma Zhang suddenly made a voice of persuasion. She looked at Yunxin on the left and Shi xiaorou on the right. She sighed, ”you two are typical little friends. In fact, there's no big deal. You can make trouble with a little thing.”
Shi xiaorou said angrily, ”it's not a small thing. He thinks I'm a tool now. Is this still a small thing?”
Anyway, she decided that what Yunxin just said was slandering her!
”Shi xiaorou, you know I don't mean that. Don't you want children yourself?” Yunxin also reasoned with Shi xiaorou.
The two of them always quarrel because they disagree.
”I want children, but I don't want to have children so early. Don't you understand?” Shi xiaorou also said what she thought.
She felt that she was still young and hadn't played enough. She didn't feel in love for long.
It is said that falling in love is the happiest time, but she hasn't even realized any happiness. Yunxin asked her to get married. She really didn't consider her feelings at all.
”Is it still early? Look, Su wennuan is as old as you. Her two children are four years old!” Yunxin said bluntly.
”You...” when xiaorou was speechless by Yunxin, she wanted to refute with Yunxin, but she couldn't find the language.
Yunxin's example can really block her mouth. She can't compare with Su wennuan.
She is a few months older than Su wennuan. As a result, Su wennuan has had children for several years, the children have gone to school, got married and had a career.
And she has nothing but play.
But she just likes to play. This is her nature. She can't change her nature for marriage.
”Yunxin, you should say less.” grandma Zhang looked at xiaorou's grievance and unspeakable. She turned to Yunxin and said.
This time she was on Shi xiaorou's side, ”you have to give xiaorou some time. You suddenly let her get married. It's naturally difficult for her to accept. Women have a little marriage phobia to a certain extent.”
”She doesn't have any marital phobia. She was going to marry other men without hesitation.” xiaorou glanced at Yunxin when she was white.
How to say, Shi xiaorou almost married Mingfeng, which has always been the biggest obstacle between them.
Although Yunxin has forgiven Shi xiaorou, this matter has always been a estrangement in Yunxin's heart.
As long as Shi xiaorou has a little opinion on marriage, he thinks of Shi xiaorou's almost marrying Mingfeng. When comparing her current attitude towards marriage with her previous attitude when she was going to marry Mingfeng, Yunxin is angry.
Yunxin thinks that Shi xiaorou has no opinion about the marriage itself, that is, she has an opinion about the marriage object.