Chapter 121： Bitter meat plan (1/2)

Jonathan had been thinking about how to solve this matter successfully on the plane. After thinking for several hours, he had a headache. In fact, he has always felt that there are some problems between him and Jian Hongshen. Jian Hongshen does not know why, and he has no confidence in himself or this relationship. But the source of this pessimistic view of Jian Hongshen, Jonathan has never been able to find it, and the other party loves to press everything in his heart. Even if Jonathan wants to seriously ask about communication, it will be perfunctory.

This is a thorn lying between them. It usually does not show up. It seems that there is no problem, but there is a small gap after a small fuse. Jonathan and Jane Hongshen's personality is too far apart, and Jane Hongshen does not like to talk to people. Jonathan cannot fundamentally understand his true thoughts, and can only slowly remove Jian Hongshen by relying on long-term interactions and actions. Pessimistic thoughts.

Jonathan thinks it may be because he has always been a playboy, so Jian Hongshen will not believe him, so he not only completely changed the previous behavior of the world, and returned to accompany Jian Hongshen every day after work. He has made many guarantees and made many promises and confessions. Jonathan feels that this still has some effect. It is estimated that after his proposal, Jian Hongshen's confidence in each other should be stronger, so that it can always be eradicated. But now that this has not been completely eradicated, this negative emotion has exploded violently due to an accident.

In fact, this time, it is easy to dismiss misunderstandings by a couple with more confidence in each other, so as not to appear in such a scene of Jonathan's cross-country pursuit and marriage proposal. According to a more common approach, Jian Hongshen directly questioned Jonathan about what happened, or worried about being deceived by rhetoric and went to verify it himself. After all, lovers in love should always have some hope, at least to confirm the truth of the matter.

However, Jian Hongshen seems to have no hope at all, and even seems to have been waiting for such a time, and left directly before doing any verification.

This made Jonathan feel a little frustrated, he has done a lot, but still did not get the trust of crisis. This matter is actually easy to explain, but if you don't eliminate Jian Hongshen's distrust of him, there may be a second time for such a thing for the first time. Feelings can't stand such tossing again and again.

Jonathan doesn't doubt Jian Hongshen's feelings for him, but feelings without trust are like rootless duckweed, which is too easy to fall apart. Jonathan did not want their feelings to be exhausted because of various misunderstandings. Even if the matter is clearly explained this time, it will create a gap between the two people. If you don’t want to find a way out of Jian Hongshen’s heart disease, the situation may get worse.

So Jonathan thought for a long time, and finally decided not only to use marriage proposal to show his determination, but also to let Qi Yan help to find out why Jian Hongshen had no confidence in their future. In addition, he came in a hurry, and Qi Yan needed some help with the proposal.

After Qi Yan and Jonathan made things clear, they felt quite complicated. So it seemed that Jonathan was quite sad, and such a thing would not happen between him and Shu Zimu.

However, there is something wrong with Jian Hongshen's mentality. Of course, Qi Yan, as a friend, will not refuse to help, but he is not an emotional expert who talks with Xin at all, so this matter must still be handed over to Xu Chi.

This matter also needs to be discussed, Qi Yan simply let Jonathan come to their house.

When Jonathan came over at night, Shu Zimu felt strange, and he couldn't help but guess that he wanted Qi Yan to be a lobbyist. However, since the cause and effect of this incident have been clarified, Qi Yan no longer concealed Shu Zimu, and said everything. I also want him to help him and give some advice.

Shu Zimu and Qi Yan first heard Jonathan talk about the proposal he had originally prepared. Proposal actually says that the average person has a ring and a bunch of flowers, so just say the classic line on one knee. But Jonathan found someone to design a detailed script, then prepared various props, arranged the rehearsal of actors, and also built a very dreamy and romantic scene, ready to surprise Jian Hongshen. In this proposal process, Jonathan chose all the best things, the best venues and clothing, the most beautiful fresh roses, the most top designers, the most precious rings. In addition to being expensive, it also consumes a lot of energy and has to rehearse many times to avoid mistakes.

After listening to it, Shu Zimu and Qi Yan were a little amazed. It was no wonder that Jonathan had to spend a lot of time preparing, which can be said to be ten times more troublesome than the design that Xu Chi confessed to Yun Hao. It was just that Jonathan was in a hurry to prepare for the marriage proposal. In order to prevent Jian Hongshen from discovering in advance, he could only excuse his busy work recently. However, Jonathan's lie is probably not well spread, and Jian Hongshen may have some doubts in his own right. After that, Beryl came to the door and took it for granted that Jonathan's busy time was dating.

At this point of view, I have to say that Jonathan did have such a bad luck. A joyous event that was originally carefully prepared turned into a lot of trouble at once.

Now that the situation has changed, Jonathan has not prepared anything to come to China, and Jian Hongshen is still misunderstanding. If you want to untie Jian Hongshen’s heart as much as possible, the proposal should be reconciled with the explanation, so as to avoid Jian Hongshen Think too much. That is to say, this matter should not be delayed, otherwise it will appear sincere.

Jonathan’s idea is to arrange people overnight, and as soon as possible to make a simplified version of the marriage proposal he designed on the Chinese side. Although there is definitely no detailed preparation in place in the country, as long as more people are arranged, it can basically be done. reduction.

Qi Yan felt that this was feasible. The original plot was definitely unusable, but Qi Yan and Xu Chi could find an opportunity to lead Jian Hongshen to their destination. Jonathan is really well prepared, and it's a pity not to use it.

Shu Zimu shook his head at this time: ”I think this is bad.”

Jonathan looked at him, and wondered: ”Where is not good?” He was confident in his carefully prepared proposal.

Shu Zimu asked: ”What do you think is the most important part of the proposal?”

Jonathan stunned, ”...Is it time to propose the ring?”

Shu Zimu smiled and said, ”This is the person who proposes to him, and his sincerity.”

”If the person who proposes is not the one who likes to spend a lifetime together, then even if the promise made by the other person is moving, the ring held is noble, and the arrangement of the proposal is excellent, it will not be accepted. On the contrary, as long as you are right The person, even if none of the above, has little effect. The purpose of the proposal is actually only one, in order to gain the acceptance of the other party, and the success of this matter basically depends on whether you are the person in the other person’s heart. .”

Seeing Jonathan suddenly, Shu Zimu continued: ”In addition, sincerity is also very important. Sometimes the other party may not be fully determined because of various factors. At this time, it depends on whether the displayed sincerity can impress the other party.”

Jonathan thought about it for a while and said, ”Isn't that what I prepared to be sincere? Why are you saying this is bad?”

Shu Zimu shook his head, ”You did it with sincerity. If this accident did not happen and you are still in the country, then your preparation can be said to be perfect. But now you have to explain the misunderstanding before you can propose, and To resolve the misunderstanding, you should take the initiative to come to the door, instead of leading the other party to a well-arranged place, giving people a feeling of not being in a hurry and being very idle.”

Jonathan frowned, ”Then I'll go find him to explain, and then say it after the proposal?” Jonathan said he rejected this idea. If this proposal does not seize the opportunity and eliminate some of Jan Hong’s deep concerns, it might as well go back to the country and use the original plan.

Jonathan felt that if he simply explained the misunderstanding, he would also be embarrassed to get along with Jian Hongshen for a while, and he could not be intimate. If you did not propose immediately at the same time as the explanation, then after a day or two of proposing in this awkward state, Jian Hongshen may not feel any surprises, and it is easy to think about things. And if you want to ensure the effect, the explanation and the marriage proposal go on at the same time, what Shu Zimu said really makes sense.

Jonathan thought about it, and combined with Shu Zimu's previous words, realized a little meaning: ”Then I don't prepare those things, go directly to him with a ring?”

Shu Zimu nodded with a look of ”teachable”, and said, ”Those things are external. Although they were originally prepared by you carefully, the other party may not know the effort you put in. After all, with your financial resources, let the assistant It is easy to find a planning company to arrange these. According to you, Jian Hongshen seems to have doubts about the depth of the feelings you put in, then you should show your feelings more directly.”

Jonathan smiled bitterly, ”I have made this very straightforward.”

Shu Zimu coughed, ”I said straightforwardness is not just a verbal expression, but more.” Shu Zimu thought about it and explained to him: ”When people are pessimistic, their ideas tend to be bad. Direction, so if you want the other party to receive a positive message, it is best to perform without any other interpretation options. For example, giving gifts, the average person will be happy when receiving a gift from a lover, but people who are prone to suffering may suffer in addition to happiness. I would like to think what this gift represents. If the gift is too simple, I will doubt that the other party is perfunctory; the gift is too expensive and feels that the economic gap between each other is too large to match the other party; the gift does not like and is not suitable. The other party does not really care about themselves; the gift may be suitable. Worried that the secretary is doing it; if there were some other doubts before, then receiving the gift may not only be unhappy, but may even suspect that this is the other party’s guilty conscience.”

”So in this case, the best way is to do it yourself or pick it yourself, and let the other party see it directly, so that the other party knows that this is for his deliberate preparation. There can be no negative guessing from the motivation to the process, The result is naturally guaranteed to be good.”

Shu Zimu thought about it for a while, and then said: ”And your direct oral expression may have a counterproductive effect, after all...” Shu Zimu glanced at Jonathan, using a very academic tone: ”After all, you have a black history, Jane Hongshen may feel that...the sweet words you say have no credibility. The more you say it, the more he might think you are, uh, romantic, thinking that your relationship is as weak as your previous feelings. Although a little bit Problems left over by history, but this can not be completely said to be your fault. Just to treat people with less healthy mental state, if you want to get along for a long time, you must pay more attention to these problems. Of course, as long as Jian Hongshen's heart Unlock, you have enough feelings and trust foundation, you don't have to worry about this situation.”

As a screenwriter, Shu Zimu will also know a little bit about psychology, and Jonathan and Jian Hongshen have a somewhat dog-blood idol drama, so Shu Zimu is easy to set up and talk a lot.

Jonathan was silent for a while, ”...So the reason is this?” He felt a bit wrong, but at this time he did not justify himself, but said to Shu Zi Mu: ”You said it makes sense, so you think I should now What is better?”

Shu Zimu said: ”You don't need to prepare for too long, just go to Jian Hongshen and apologize to explain and propose marriage. The point is to show your attention, and you can see it at first glance. You can see it directly from l This is a good point for the country to chase the country of China. It is that it did not go after the person immediately, or it delayed the opportunity once.”

Shu Zimu is not good at writing scripts of dog blood emotional dramas, but he has learned a lot of practice at the request of Guo Lao, and the related routines are still very familiar.

Jonathan heard Shu Zimu say that the time was delayed, and his face changed slightly, ”Then I will pass by now?”