Chapter 266 (2/2)
The next moment, Su Qing sorted out her emotions and said, ”I feel like we still need to talk about how to raise winter and spring.”
Dongdong and Chunchun are children with parents. Su Qing has thought for a long time. She doesn't want to be selfish and deprive children of the right to enjoy their parents' love. Therefore, she wants two children to have their parents' love at the same time. However, she and Guan Dushen can't get back together. Therefore, it is necessary to discuss a reasonable rearing plan.
”What do you think?” Guan Mu asked deeply.
Su Qing hesitated for a moment, then said: ”my idea is not mature, I want to ask for your opinion. Now Dongdong is in kindergarten. Dongdong needs both his mother and his father. So I wonder if it is possible for Dongdong to be on your side from Monday to Friday and come to me on Saturday and Sunday? ”
”As you say.” I think a little bit later.
Seeing that he agreed, Su Qing said, ”as for Chunchun, she is too young now. She still needs more care from her mother. So I want Chunchun to continue to live with me. When you miss her, just come to see her, or you have time to take her out for a long time. I don't know what you think? ”
This is the plan that Su Qing put forward after deep thought these two days. She thinks that it should be the best for the two children.
Guan Mu thought deeply for a while, then said: ”at this stage, I agree with you. Now the children are still young, so it can only be so. But when the children are a little older, I hope that spring and winter can live with me. Usually you can come to see the children at any time. On weekends, you can take them out for half a day.”
Hearing this, Su Qing immediately had a fire. ”Guan Dushen, are you trying to dominate my two children?”
Of course, she can't accept this statement. Winter and winter are better. Chunchun was brought up by her childhood. How could she let Chunchun live with Guan Dushen? Isn't that equal to hollowing out your heart all at once? How can she stand it if she doesn't have one of the two children living with her for a long time?
Seeing Su Qing excited, Guan Dushen is still calm as usual. ”Su Qing, you may not be able to accept it for a while, but if you think about it, after you and Guan Qizheng are married, you are bound to have your own children. At that time, you can't treat our children wholeheartedly. After all, the children are not the same father and mother. They may also have estrangement in the future. Guan Qizheng is not a saint. He will certainly love his children most in the complex family atmosphere It's not good for children's growth”The government will not choose between one and the other.” Su Qing's firm way.
On hearing this, Guan Dushen sneered: ”Guan Qizheng is not as good as you think. Human nature is selfish.”
Hearing this, Su Qing looked at Guan Dushen with disgust and said, ”Guan Dushen, Qizheng will become my husband soon. I ask you not to slander him in front of me!”
Su Qing used a very heavy tone. Guan Dushen narrowed his eyes and said, ”OK, we won't talk about him, but what I'm talking about is the reality that every reorganized family must face. I don't think you should understand it without me saying more.”
Su Qing knows that Guan Dushen is right. Many children who are single parents or reorganized families are not mentally healthy. She and Su Zi are also single parents. Naturally, the hardships are more obvious than others.
But she believes in Guan Qizheng. Even if they have children in the future, he won't be bad for spring and winter. But the children will grow up slowly, and there will be many problems in the future. For example, Dongdong is crying for her not to marry Guan Qizheng, which is also her most distressed place.
The next moment, Su Qing asked Guan Dushen with a sneer. ”When it's too late, you'll get married and have children with other women, so you're not qualified to say that to me!”