Part 14 (2/2)
And in the end he came out successful, as every man does who is patient and sticks it out. He got a name for steady, persevering work, and for giving full value for any money paid to him.
For these reasons he obtained good contracts for building bridges, and soon enlarged his business into a very big one.
Among others, the great Tay bridge and the bridge over the Forth in Scotland are his work.
He died a rich and highly respected man, but in the height of his power he never forgot that he began as a poor boy, and he always did what he could to help other poor boys to win their way to success.
He used, however, to say that success depended mainly on the boy himself. If a boy were determined to get on, and knew a handicraft or two, he would probably succeed, but if he merely dabbled in one thing and then another, and wasted his time in amus.e.m.e.nts, and could not stick it out when luck seemed against, him, that boy would be a failure, and would probably go on being a failure all his life.
THRIFT IS MANLINESS.
So you see if, as a Scout, you pick up and really practise what Scouting teaches you, it gives you every chance of being a success in life, since it teaches you to be active and enduring, to be trustworthy, to be obedient to your duty, to be thrifty, and to learn handicrafts.
In fact, it teaches you to Be Prepared to make a successful career for yourself if you stick to it.
The knights in the old days were ordered by their code of rules to be thrifty, that is, to save money as much as possible in order to keep themselves and not to be a burden to others, and that they might have more to give away in charity.
If they were poor, they were not to beg for money, but had to make it by their own work.
Thus, Thrift is part of manliness because it means hard work and self-denial, and boys are never too young to work for pay, which they should put in the Post Office Savings Bank or some other Government security.
CLEANLINESS
Law 10. A SCOUT IS CLEAN IN THOUGHT, WORD AND DEED.
_Decent Scouts look down upon silly youths who talk dirt, and they do not let themselves give way to temptation, either to talk it or to do anything dirty. A Scout is pure, and clean-minded, and manly._
When boys are getting big, they generally want to show off and to impress other boys with their ”manliness”--or at least what they think is manliness.
It generally begins with smoking. They think it fine to smoke, so they suck and puff at cigarettes, partly because these are cheap, and partly because a pipe would make them sick.
The reason why half of them do it is because they are arrant cowards, and are afraid of being laughed at by the other boys if they don't do it. They think themselves tremendous heroes, while in reality they are little a.s.ses. Then they like to use swear words because they think this makes them appear tremendously ferocious and big. Also they think it the height of manliness to tell s.m.u.tty stories and to talk dirt.
But these things don't say much for the boy who does them. He generally curls up and hides them directly a man is present. He only produces them for sw.a.n.king in the presence of other boys, This shows that he is not really very proud of his accomplishments, and the boy who has a sense of honour in him knows at once that such things are against his conscience-law and he will have nothing to do with them.
This often puts him in a difficult position when among boys who are showing off, as they will be ready to jeer at him; but if he has honour and pluck--in a word, if he is a true Scout--he will brave it out and, as a result, he will come out the only real man of the party.
The probability will be that though they do not show it at the moment, some of the others will see that he is right and that they are wrong, and will pluck up courage themselves and follow his example in being clean and straight.
If, by his conduct, a Scout can in this way save one fellow, he will at any rate have done something in the world.
You may think there is no harm in a little joking of a risky kind, or in the occasional secret smoking of a cigarette, although you allow it may be silly; but if you look into it, and especially when you have, later on, seen results such as I have seen that come of it, you will at once understand there is great harm--great danger in it. It is the beginning; and the beginning of anything is very often the important point.
If you talk or listen to what is wrong, you get to think about what is wrong and very soon you get to doing what is wrong.
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