Part 19 (1/2)
What land, what street, what house has not felt the smitings of disease? Tens of thousands of sick-beds! What shall we do with them?
Shall man, with his rough hand and heavy foot and impatient bearing, minister? No. He cannot soothe the pain. He cannot quiet the nerves.
He knows not where to set the light. His hand is not steady enough to pour out the drops. He is not wakeful enough to be watcher. The Lord G.o.d, who sent Miss Dix into the Virginia hospitals, and Florence Nightingale into the Crimea, and the Maid of Saragossa to appease the wounds of the battlefield, has equipped wife, mother, and daughter for this delicate but tremendous mission.
You have known men who despised woman, but the moment disease fell upon them, they did not send for their friends at the bank, or their partner in business, or their worldly a.s.sociates. Their first cry was, ”Take me to my wife.” The dissipated young man at the college scoffs at the idea of being under home influences, but at the first blast of the typhoid fever on his cheek he says,
”WHERE IS MOTHER?”
I think one of the most pathetic pa.s.sages in all the Bible is the description of the lad who went out to the harvest-field of Shunem and got sun-struck, throwing his hands on his temples and crying out, ”Oh, my head! my head!” and they said: ”Carry him to his mother.” And then the record is: ”He sat on her knees till noon, and then died.” It is an awful thing to be ill away from home in a strange hotel, once in a while men coming in to look at you, holding their hand over their mouth for fear they will catch the contagion. How roughly they turn you in the bed! How loudly they talk! How you long for the ministries of home!
I knew one such who went away from one of the brightest of homes for several weeks' business absence at the West. A telegram came at midnight that he was on his death-bed, far away from home. By express train the wife and daughters went westward; but they went too late. He feared not to die; but he was in an agony to live until his family got there. He tried to bribe the doctor to make him live a little while longer. He said: ”I am willing to die, but not alone.” But the pulses fluttered, the eyes closed, and the heart stopped. The express trains met in the midnight--wife and daughters going westward, lifeless remains of husband and father coming eastward. Oh, it was a sad, pitiful, overwhelming spectacle! When we are sick we want to be sick at home. When the time comes for us to die,
WE WANT TO DIE AT HOME.
The room may be very humble, and the faces that look into ours may be very plain; but who cares for that? Loving hands to bathe the temples; loving voices to speak good cheer; loving lips to read the comforting promises of Jesus. In the war men cast the cannon; men fas.h.i.+oned the musketry; men cried to the hosts, ”Forward, march!” men hurled their battalions on the sharp edges of the enemy, crying, ”Charge! charge!”
but woman sc.r.a.ped the lint; woman administered the cordials; woman watched by the dying couch; woman wrote the last message to the home circle; woman wept at the solitary burial, attended by herself and four men with a spade. We greeted the generals home with bra.s.s bands and triumphal arches and wild huzzas; but the story is too good to be written anywhere, save in
THE CHRONICLES OF HEAVEN,
of Mrs. Brady, who came down among the sick in the swamps of the Chickahominy; of Annie Ross in the cooper-shop hospital; of Margaret Breckinridge, who came to men who had been for weeks with their wounds undressed, some of them frozen to the ground, and when she turned them over, those who had an arm left waved it, and filled the air with their ”hurrah!”--of Mrs. Hodge, who came from Chicago with blankets and with pillows, until the men shouted: ”Three cheers for the Christian-Commission! G.o.d bless the women at home!” then sitting down to take the last message: ”Tell my wife not to fret about me, but to meet me in heaven; tell her to train up the boys whom we have loved so well; tell her we shall meet again in the good land; tell her to bear my loss like the Christian wife of a Christian soldier”--and of Mrs.
Shelton, into whose face the convalescent soldier looked and said: ”Your grapes and cologne cured me.”
Men did their work with shot, and sh.e.l.l, and carbine, and howitzer;
WOMEN DID THEIR WORK
with socks, and slippers, and bandages, and warm drinks, and Scripture texts, and gentle strokings of the hot temples, and stories of that land where they never have any pain. Men knelt down over the wounded and said: ”On which side did you fight?” Women knelt down over the wounded and said: ”Where are you hurt? What nice thing can I make for you to eat? What makes you cry?” To-night, while we men are sound asleep in our beds, there will be a light in yonder loft; there will be groaning down that dark alley; there will be cries of distress in that cellar. Men will sleep, and women will watch.
II. Again, woman has a superlative right to take
CARE OF THE POOR.
There are hundreds and thousands of them in all our cities. There is a kind of work that men cannot do for the poor. Here comes a group of little barefoot children to the door of the Dorcas Society. They need to be clothed and provided for. Which of these directors of banks would know how many yards it would take to make that little girl a dress? Which of these masculine hands could fit a hat to that little girl's head? Which of the wise men would know how to tie on that new pair of shoes? Man sometimes gives his charity in a rough way, and it falls like the fruit of a tree in the East, which fruit comes down so heavily that it breaks the skull of the man who is trying to gather it. But woman glides so softly into the house of dest.i.tution, and finds out all the sorrows of the place, and puts so quietly the donation on the table, that all the family come out on the front steps as she departs, expecting that from under her shawl she will thrust out two wings and go right up toward heaven, from whence she seems to have come down.
O Christian young woman, if you would make yourself happy and win the blessing of Christ, go out
AMONG THE DESt.i.tUTE!
A loaf of bread or a bundle of socks may make a homely load to carry; but the angels of G.o.d will come out to watch, and the Lord Almighty will give His messenger hosts a charge, saying, ”Look after that woman; canopy her with your wings and shelter her from all harm;” and while you are seated in the house of dest.i.tution and suffering, the little ones around the room will whisper, ”Who is she? Ain't she beautiful?” and if you will listen right sharply, you will hear dripping down through the leaky roof, and rolling over the rotten stairs, the angel chant that shook Bethlehem: ”Glory to G.o.d in the highest, and on earth peace, good-will to men.”
Can you tell me why a Christian woman, going-down among
THE HAUNTS OF INIQUITY
on a Christian errand, never meets with any indignity? I stood in the chapel of Helen Chalmers, the daughter of the celebrated Dr. Chalmers, in the most abandoned part of the city of Edinburgh; and I said to her, as I looked around upon the fearful surroundings of that place, ”Do you come here nights to hold a service?” ”Oh yes,” she said, ”I take my lantern and I go through all these haunts of sin, the darkest and the worst; and I ask all the men and women to come to the chapel; and then I sing for them, and I pray for them, and I talk to them.” I said, ”Can it be possible that you never meet with an insult while performing this Christian errand?” ”Never,” she said, ”never.”