Part 14 (2/2)
The day was fix'd; for so the lover sigh'd, So knelt and craved, he couldn't be denied; When, tale most dreadful! every hope adieu, - For the fond lover is the brother too: All other griefs abate; this monstrous grief Has no remission, comfort, or relief; Four ample volumes, through each page disclose, - Good Heaven protect us! only woes on woes; Till some strange means afford a sudden view Of some vile plot, and every woe adieu!
Now, should we grant these beauties all endure Severest pangs, they've still the speediest cure; Before one charm be withered from the face, Except the bloom, which shall again have place, In wedlock ends each wish, in triumph all disgrace; And life to come, we fairly may suppose, One light, bright contrast to these wild dark woes.
These let us leave, and at her sorrows look, Too often seen, but seldom in a book; Let her who felt, relate them;--on her chair The heroine sits--in former years, the fair, Now aged and poor; but Ellen Orford knows That we should humbly take what Heaven bestows.
”My father died--again my mother wed, And found the comforts of her life were fled; Her angry husband, vex'd through half his years By loss and troubles, filled her soul with fears: Their children many, and 'twas my poor place To nurse and wait on all the infant-race; Labour and hunger were indeed my part, And should have strengthen'd an erroneous heart.
”Sore was the grief to see him angry come, And teased with business, make distress at home; The father's fury and the children's cries I soon could bear, but not my mother's sighs; For she look'd back on comforts, and would say, 'I wrong'd thee, Ellen,' and then turn away: Thus, for my age's good, my youth was tried, And this my fortune till my mother died.
”So, amid sorrow much and little cheer - A common case--I pa.s.s'd my twentieth year; For these are frequent evils; thousands share An equal grief--the like domestic care.
”Then in my days of bloom, of health, and youth, One, much above me, vow'd his love and truth: We often met, he dreading to be seen, And much I question'd what such dread might mean; Yet I believed him true; my simple heart And undirected reason took his part.
”Can he who loves me, whom I love, deceive?
Can I such wrong of one so kind believe, Who lives but in my smile, who trembles when I grieve?
”He dared not marry, but we met to prove What sad encroachments and deceits has love: Weak that I was, when he, rebuked, withdrew, I let him see that I was wretched too; When less my caution, I had still the pain Of his or mine own weakness to complain.
”Happy the lovers cla.s.s'd alike in life, Or happier yet the rich endowing wife; But most aggrieved the fond believing maid.
Of her rich lover tenderly afraid: You judge th' event; for grievous was my fate, Painful to feel, and shameful to relate: Ah! sad it was my burthen to sustain, When the least misery was the dread of pain; When I have grieving told him my disgrace, And plainly mark'd indifference in his face.
”Hard! with these fears and terrors to behold The cause of all, the faithless lover, cold; Impatient grown at every wish denied, And barely civil, soothed and gratified; Peevish when urged to think of vows so strong, And angry when I spake of crime and wrong.
All this I felt, and still the sorrow grew, Because I felt that I deserved it too, And begg'd my infant stranger to forgive The mother's shame, which in herself must live.
When known that shame, I, soon expell'd from home, With a frail sister shared a hovel's gloom; There barely fed--(what could I more request?) My infant slumberer sleeping at my breast, I from my window saw his blooming bride, And my seducer smiling at her side; Hope lived till then; I sank upon the floor, And grief and thought and feeling were no more: Although revived, I judged that life would close, And went to rest, to wonder that I rose: My dreams were dismal,--wheresoe'er I stray'd, I seem'd ashamed, alarm'd, despised, betray'd; Always in grief, in guilt, disgraced, forlorn, Mourning that one so weak, so vile, was born; The earth a desert, tumult in the sea, The birds affrighten'd fled from tree to tree, Obscured the setting sun, and every thing like me.
But Heav'n had mercy, and my need at length Urged me to labour, and renew'd my strength.
I strove for patience as a sinner must, Yet felt th' opinion of the world unjust: There was my lover, in his joy esteem'd, And I, in my distress, as guilty deemed; Yet sure, not all the guilt and shame belong To her who feels and suffers for the wrong: The cheat at play may use the wealth he's won, But is not honour'd for the mischief done; The cheat in love may use each villain art, And boast the deed that breaks the victim's heart.
”Four years were past; I might again have found Some erring wish, but for another wound: Lovely my daughter grew, her face was fair, But no expression ever brighten'd there; I doubted long, and vainly strove to make Some certain meaning of the words she spake; But meaning there was none, and I survey'd With dread the beauties of my idiot-maid.
Still I submitted;--Oh! 'tis meet and fit In all we feel to make the heart submit; Gloomy and calm my days, but I had then, It seem'd, attractions for the eyes of men: The sober master of a decent trade O'erlook'd my errors, and his offer made; Reason a.s.sented: --true, my heart denied, 'But thou,' I said,'shalt be no more my guide.'
”When wed, our toil and trouble, pains and care, Of means to live procured us humble share; Five were our sons,--and we, though careful, found Our hopes declining as the year came round: For I perceived, yet would not soon perceive, My husband stealing from my view to grieve: Silent he grew, and when he spoke he sigh'd, And surly look'd, and peevishly replied: Pensive by nature, he had gone of late To those who preach'd of destiny and fate, Of things foredoom'd, and of election-grace, And how in vain we strive to run our race; That all by works and moral worth we gain Is to perceive our care and labour vain; That still the more we pay, our debts the more remain; That he who feels not the mysterious call, Lies bound in sin, still grov'ling from the fall.
My husband felt not: --our persuasion, prayer, And our best reason, darken'd his despair; His very nature changed; he now reviled My former conduct,--he reproach'd my child: He talked of b.a.s.t.a.r.d slips, and cursed his bed, And from our kindness to concealment fled; For ever to some evil change inclined, To every gloomy thought he lent his mind, Nor rest would give to us, nor rest himself could find; His son suspended saw him, long bereft Of life, nor prospect of revival left.
”With him died all our prospects, and once more I shared th' allotments of the parish poor; They took my children too, and this I know Was just and lawful, but I felt the blow: My idiot-maid and one unhealthy boy Were left, a mother's misery and her joy.
”Three sons I follow'd to the grave, and one - Oh! can I speak of that unhappy son?
Would all the memory of that time were fled, And all those horrors, with my child, were dead!
Before the world seduced him, what a grace And smile of gladness shone upon his face!
Then, he had knowledge; finely would he write; Study to him was pleasure and delight; Great was his courage, and but few could stand Against the sleight and vigour of his hand; The maidens loved him;--when he came to die, No, not the coldest could suppress a sigh: Here I must cease--how can I say, my child Was by the bad of either s.e.x beguiled?
Worst of the bad--they taught him that the laws Made wrong and right; there was no other cause, That all religion was the trade of priests, And men, when dead, must perish like the beasts: - And he, so lively and so gay, before - Ah; spare a mother--I can tell no more.
”Int'rest was made that they should not destroy The comely form of my deluded boy - But pardon came not; damp the place and deep Where he was kept, as they'd a tiger keep; For he, unhappy! had before them all Vow'd he'd escape, whatever might befall.
He'd means of dress, and dress'd beyond his means, And so to see him in such dismal scenes, I cannot speak it--cannot bear to tell Of that sad hour--I heard the pa.s.sing bell!
”Slowly they went; he smiled, and look'd so smart, Yet sure he shudder'd when he saw the cart, And gave a look--until my dying day, That look will never from my mind away: Oft as I sit, and ever in my dreams, I see that look, and they have heard my screams.
”Now let me speak no more--yet all declared That one so young, in pity, should be spared.
And one so manly;--on his graceful neck, That chains of jewels may be proud to deck, To a small mole a mother's lips have press'd - And there the cord--my breath is sore oppress'd.
”I now can speak again: --my elder boy Was that year drown'd,--a seaman in a hoy: He left a numerous race; of these would some In their young troubles to my cottage come, And these I taught--an humble teacher I - Upon their heavenly Parent to rely.
”Alas! I needed such reliance more: My idiot-girl, so simply gay before, Now wept in pain: some wretch had found a time, Depraved and wicked, for that coward crime; I had indeed my doubt, but I suppress'd The thought that day and night disturb'd my rest; She and that sick-pale brother--but why strive To keep the terrors of that time alive?
”The hour arrived, the new, th' undreaded pain, That came with violence, and yet came in vain.
I saw her die: her brother too is dead; Nor own'd such crime--what is it that I dread?
”The parish aid withdrawn, I look'd around, And in my school a bless'd subsistence found - My winter-calm of life: to be of use Would pleasant thoughts and heavenly hopes produce; I loved them all; it soothed me to presage The various trials of their riper age, Then dwell on mine, and bless the Power who gave Pains to correct us, and remorse to save.
”Yes! these were days of peace, but they are past, - A trial came, I will believe, a last; I lost my sight, and my employment gone, Useless I live, but to the day live on; Those eyes which long the light of heaven enjoy'd, Were not by pain, by agony destroy'd: My senses fail not all; I speak, I pray; By night my rest, my food I take by day; And, as my mind looks cheerful to my end, I love mankind, and call my G.o.d my friend.”
LETTER XXI.
THE POOR OF THE BOROUGH.
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