Chapter 770 (1/2)
Seeing Zhang Xiaoruo thinking, Yongchun patted her on the back of her hand again and said, ”you were not treated by your father before, but after all, you grew up in our circle. You should have seen many real examples. When many women first marry into their husband's house, their mother-in-law treats them very well. However, as time goes on, if they are not pregnant, their attitude will gradually change. ”
Women are not the tools of the mother-in-law's family to have children, but the mother-in-law's family still put most of the responsibility of inheriting the family on the daughter-in-law.
It's strange that the attitude of the mother-in-law remains unchanged for a long time after marriage.
Zhang Xiao nodded, ”I know and have heard a lot. For example, the eldest daughter-in-law of the Wang family has been married to the Wang family for several years, but nothing has happened. However, the second daughter-in-law has held two sons since she entered the family for three years. Her status is as stable as Mount Tai, and she has been living like a fish in water in her husband's family. ”
”The eldest and youngest grandmothers seek medical treatment all day. At first, Mrs. Wang was very concerned about them. Every time she came back from the doctor's visit, she would care about them, but after a long time, she didn't even ask them. That's why Grandma Wang lived in her mother-in-law's house, and her parents felt that they couldn't lift their heads in front of Wang's family.”
Yongchun said, and then Zhang Xiao went on: ”Wang Da Shao granny had a child five years after she started her career. She was lucky enough to have a baby with a boy. That's how she was elated. Her mother-in-law's attitude towards her changed, and her mother-in-law also straightened her waist and raised her head.”
Lu Yongchun has also heard of the case of the eldest and youngest grandmothers of the Wang family.
Before they were unmarried, they could not understand the pressure.
”Now that you know all about it, you have to think about your own future, or tell your mother-in-law the reason why you don't want to have a baby now, so as to get her understanding, so as to avoid conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law because of the problem of having children.”
After all, Yongchun became Zhang Xiao's cousin. As her sister-in-law, she hoped that her sister-in-law would be happy in her mother-in-law's family.
Zhang Xiao said, she really wants to have a good talk with her mother-in-law about having a baby.
Lu Yongchun's analysis is very reasonable. If Zhang Xiao was not the daughter of the Zhang family, or had a few days of love more than 20 years ago, she would not be as happy and comfortable as she is now.
Zhang Xiao is also greedy for this peace and does not want it to be destroyed.
After Ning Zhiyuan brought Yongchun back to Lu's home, Zhang Xiao and his mother-in-law sat in the yard chatting.
Zhao Ziru did care about her daughter-in-law's condition. Soon after she sat down, she first asked, ”Xiao'er, it's so nice to have Yongchun come in. Mrs. Lu will be ecstatic when she knows about it. Even I feel very happy when I hear it. When will Huan Xi and Chen send you good news? ”
Sure enough, my mother-in-law wanted her to be pregnant and have children.
Zhang Xiao gave a silent smile and replied, ”Mom, Muya is still young. I will consider it when Muya is bigger.”
Zhao Ziru frowned slightly, with a gentle smile on her face. ”Muya is not asking you to have a brother for her. It's impossible for her to have a brother, but it's a matter of course to have a younger brother and sister. Muya is well taught by you, and I believe she won't exclude you from having children. ”
You can't stand on the pretext of Moya.
Zhang Xiao had to continue to explain: ”Mom, I'm still not firmly established in the company. I'm very busy and under great pressure. In this case, it's not suitable to be pregnant. I'm afraid it's bad for the fetus.”
When preparing for pregnancy, you need physical and mental health.
She is under too much pressure and has many hidden arrows in her environment, which is not conducive to pregnancy preparation.
Zhao Ziru doesn't know about the transformation of contradictions within the Haotian group, let alone Zhang Xiao's intention to seize the Haotian group. She thinks Zhang Xiao is helping her father solve the problem of holiday resort.