Chapter 439 (1/2)

I believe that when it comes to education + freedom, everyone can make a lot of long speeches.

But in fact, there are many misunderstandings in the understanding of domestic parents: Education + freedom ≠ stocking.

The middle class families in Europe and the United States implement elite education. The lessons children have to take from childhood to adulthood are no worse than those of domestic children.

Their so-called freedom is just to give children more ideological freedom and choice.

Sports, want to learn horse riding or baseball, or American football, in the sports category must choose the same.

The same is true of other courses, but in terms of children's thinking expansion, they will give more support and let children speak freely.

To make a simple analogy, a child in the process of learning mathematics, said that I want to solve all the problems in mathematics.

Parents will immediately provide him with the information and help he needs and support him to do it immediately. They will not tell you whether you can do it or not. It needs to be decided by yourself.

Whether you choose to give up in the end, or continue to study unremittingly, or even plunge into the ocean of Mathematics for a lifetime, it is your own choice.

But domestic parents will say, ”well, if you want to achieve that step, you must first learn basic knowledge, what you need to learn first, then what you need to learn, and finally enter what school, hard work, you can achieve what you want to do.”

They think that a word ”good” is even to agree with his idea and give him the so-called freedom.

Little did not know that the child has not yet started, the parents set aside the goal to frighten.

Although you tell him the truth, he will be scared by the reality.

In the long-term implication, will have doubts about their own ability.

”I didn't learn enough. I couldn't do it. I didn't have any education background. I couldn't do it. I didn't learn relevant knowledge. I couldn't do it...”

Once self denial begins, it will accompany his whole life and destroy all his self-confidence.

Or, directly choose to raise, ”want to learn this, good, want to learn that, good, this does not learn, OK, that does not learn, or line.”

Then the child was destroyed.

Children's self-control and self-control are very poor, and some parents just stare at some ”individual cases” and instill poisonous chicken soup into their children every day.

They call their names back to the United States. They can't restrict the free development of children. They should give them freedom.

Free ghost!

This is also what Li Zi Tao learned after he really contacted him. Freedom is not a free range, which can not educate an excellent next generation.

In the United States, every family with the ability to carry out elite education.

Therefore, children's primary and secondary schools are actually a relaxed learning environment, and their studies at home are more and more onerous than those at school.

Of course, church schools and some schools with rigid indicators are exceptional.

The homework there can be done from early to late, every three to five there are teacher assigned topics, a variety of learning groups, interest classes to see people dazzled.

However, Mary is very good to mobilize the interest of the two young ladies, and each time she will take classes with them to cultivate their interest points during recess and do it by herself.

Because of this, Norma and FEIA feel pressure, but in her company, did not produce a rebellious psychology.

Or maybe not yet. After all, they are only nine years old now.

Mary accompanied the two girls to the etiquette class, while Li Zitao was thinking about the problem she had just mentioned.

What's wrong with the prince who gave up his throne for the sake of the third daughter?