Chapter 868 (1/2)

”What should I do now?” Yu Yan lowers her head and tears drop down.

Gu Zhennan took a look at the door. It was hard to come in. He silently went to the children's room.

”What do you think now?” Guo Xiang sat Yu Yan down and took a handkerchief to wipe her tears.

”I don't know...” Yu Yan shook her head.

”If you really want to leave, talk to him.” Guo Xiang said.

”I......” Yu Yan raised her head, ”but what about Xiao Jin? I can't live without him, but if he follows me, he won't have a father... ”

Guo Xiang sighed that it is often children who are injured in divorce.

Some people may say that many children from divorced families are also good and excellent, but there are more children with problems from divorced families.

They may have grown up healthily, and their work and life may be no different from others, but their psychological injury often has a great impact on their future life.

Even parents' marriage will bring them a great shadow and affect their view of marriage.

A healthy family plays a great role in the growth of children.

In a family with loving parents, children are often happy and simple, and know how to love others.

In families where parents don't love each other, children often don't know how to love, don't know how to express their love, and sometimes even do extreme things.

If it is a family that quarrels and fights every day, it may be better for the children to divorce early.

But in a family that is usually affectionate or normal, when parents suddenly divorce, children generally can't accept it, and their study and life will plummet.

Even some children will think whether they did not do well enough to cause their parents to divorce, attribute their mistakes to themselves and fall into self blame.

In particular, an Jin, an introverted child, may be hit hard by his parents' divorce.

Yu Yan doesn't divorce because she wants to maintain superficial harmony and make her children think that her family is normal and doesn't want him to be affected.

It may not be apparent, but the impact is very subtle. Maybe the child's character will become more gloomy, which Yu Yan doesn't want to see.

”I just want to maintain this relationship and respect each other like guests!” Yu Yan said.

”But...” Guo Xiang thought about what to say, ”but Anrui is a normal man. He will need it. You... Cough, men will need more than women. If you want to do this all the time, I'm afraid he can't stand it...”

”What if he cheated again?” Asked Guo Xiang.

Yu Yan looked blankly, ”I, he...” she never thought of such a thing.

”It's been more than half a year since last time. You can't live like this for a lifetime. Either you accept him and slowly overcome the obstacles in your heart, or you will divorce him and completely liberate yourself...” Guo Xiang said.

”It's not impossible for you to maintain it like this, but can it last a lifetime? You can stand it, he can't stand it... ”

”He can't stand it. He'll ask for a divorce first. Anyway, I'll agree.” Yu Yan said.

”But if he doesn't leave, he can't leave for the future, and then go to find another woman, will you bear it all your life?” Guo Xiang frowned.

”I, I don't know...” Yu Yan was at a loss. It must not be possible, but she couldn't forgive him now.

”Why don't you talk to him? Let him give you some more time. ” Guo Xiang said.

Yu Yan nervously pinched her fingers, ”I don't know how to tell him...”

”Then, shall I help you?” Asked Guo Xiang.

”But...” Yu Yan's eyes were confused. ”I don't know what I want.”

”Then let him choose.” Guo Xiang said, ”I'll tell him.”