Part 34 (1/2)
CHAPTER x.x.xVIII
CHAPERONS AND DeBUTANTES
An unmarried lady, unless she be a maiden-lady of a recognised age and standing, cannot act as an orthodox chaperon; but, on the other hand, a young married lady could do so with the greatest propriety, as could a brother from the age of eighteen; of other relatives it is not necessary to speak.
Young ladies are now frequently asked to dinner-parties without a chaperon, a hostess const.i.tuting herself chaperon for the occasion.
Dances are also given to which it is understood chaperons are _not_ invited, the hostess again acting in that capacity, but at large b.a.l.l.s and dances chaperonage is considered indispensable for young ladies. At theatres and evening concerts chaperonage is distinctly required; but at morning concerts and _matinees_, companions.h.i.+p rather than chaperonage is needed.
As regards morning hours. Young ladies may now walk together in the Park and elsewhere; ride together, attend cla.s.ses together or alone, go to luncheon or afternoon tea alone or together at the houses of friends and acquaintances, quite unaccompanied by a chaperon. They may also visit at country houses without a chaperon, the hostess performing this duty.
At all out-door gatherings, such as garden-parties, tennis-parties, cricket-matches, golf-meetings, etc., the chaperonage required is of the slightest, and for which any might be made available.
CHAPTER x.x.xIX
PRESENTATIONS AT THE VICEREGAL COURT, DUBLIN CASTLE
The Drawing-rooms at Dublin Castle are held by the Lord-Lieutenant of Ireland and his wife, in St. Patrick's Hall, at 10.15 o'clock p.m.
=A Lady who desires= a presentation at the Viceregal Court must be presented by a lady who has herself been presented thereat, and it is necessary that she herself should be present on the occasion, save under exceptional circ.u.mstances. A lady is not allowed to present more than _two_ ladies, except in special cases to be sanctioned by His Excellency.
=A Lady who proposes being presented= at a Viceregal Drawing-room must send to the Chamberlain's office by five o'clock, three days previous to the Drawing-room, a card with her name and address both in town and country, and the name and address of the lady by whom she is to be presented distinctly written thereon, and stating which Drawing-room she wishes to attend, to be submitted to the Lord-Lieutenant and his wife for their Excellencies' approval. Also two Presentation Cards must be obtained at the Chamberlain's office two days before the Drawing-room--if they have not previously been sent by post--and must be filled in with the necessary particulars, and taken to the Castle on the evening of the Drawing-room, one to be delivered to the official stationed in the Corridor, and the other to be handed to the Chamberlain, who will announce the name. It is requested that the names may be very distinctly written upon the cards, that there may be no difficulty in announcing them.
=A Lady attending= a Viceregal Drawing-room, who has been already presented at the Viceregal Court, must leave at the Chamberlain's office, three days previous to the Drawing-room, a card with her name and address, both in town and country, distinctly written thereon, and stating which Drawing-room she wishes to attend. She must bring with her two similar cards on the evening of the Drawing-room, one to be given to the official in the Corridor, and the other to the Chamberlain, who will announce the name.
A lady on entering the Castle on the evening of a Drawing-room towards ten o'clock, finds the hall lined with soldiers, and repairs at once to the cloak-room to leave wraps, etc., and to have her train dexterously arranged over one arm by a female attendant. She then proceeds up the grand staircase, lined with servants in gorgeous liveries, and enters the Corridor, where one of the Presentation Cards is given up to the official in attendance, and she pa.s.ses down the Corridor into the Long Drawing-room, where a barrier of wood, enclosing a s.p.a.ce, is erected at the end. One of the gentlemen of the Household lifts this barrier at intervals to allow of a certain number pa.s.sing through to the Throne-room, at the door of which her train is let down and arranged by men-servants. If she is to be ”presented,” the Chamberlain tells her to take off her right-hand glove, and, if royalty is present, informs her that she must make three bows, and says, ”Three bows, please.” She gives up her second Presentation Card to him, and he calls out her name, and it is pa.s.sed along to His Excellency by the gentlemen of the household.
The Lord-Lieutenant and his wife stand on a das, he standing in front of the Throne, which is a grand chair of State, and on either side--in what are known as the ”Pens”--are grouped the visitors staying at the Castle, those who have the private _entree_, and the members of the Household. The name of the lady who makes the presentation is also called out. The lady presented advances, the Lord-Lieutenant shakes hands with her, but does not now kiss her on the cheek; she then makes him a bow, and bows to his wife, who bows in return. She then retires back to the door leading into the Long Drawing-room, where her train is replaced over her arm. She then proceeds to St. Patrick's Hall, or to the Picture Gallery.
=Ladies who attend= the Drawing-room only bow to the Lord-Lieutenant and his wife; he bows to them, but he does not shake hands with them or kiss them. In Ireland men invariably accompany their wives to the Drawing-room, having previously attended the Levee; they pa.s.s along the base of the semi-circle, and make their bows at the same time as do the ladies.
When all have been received and have a.s.sembled in St. Patrick's Hall, a procession is formed, the Lord-Lieutenant walking first, followed by his wife, whose train is carried by pages. The visitors staying at the Castle follow next, and then the members of the Household, the band stationed in the gallery playing ”G.o.d Save the King” the while. All those present form up in two lines to make a pa.s.sage for the procession to pa.s.s through, and bow low to His Excellency and his wife as they pa.s.s.
A supper is not given, only light refreshments of every description.
These refreshments are arranged on long tables on one side of St.
Patrick's Hall, and at the lower end, under the gallery, tables are placed for tea, coffee, wine, etc. On the opposite side of the hall red-cus.h.i.+oned seats are placed, and the company promenade in and around the Picture Gallery and St. Patrick's Hall during the remainder of the evening.
Ladies wear full Court dress as at Buckingham Palace, and gentlemen uniform or Court dress.
=Levees.=--Every n.o.bleman or gentleman who proposes to attend a Levee, and who has not yet been received at the Viceregal Court, must be introduced by a n.o.bleman or gentleman who has himself been previously presented thereat.