Chapter 1402 (1/2)
”What's the use of arguing with me? Are you a new woman? Women's rights? ” Said the mother.
Fang Xiyou did not speak.
”Xiyou, I don't mean to ask you to kowtow to your parents-in-law all day long and bring tea and water, but now you really need to put down your posture and face others with a low attitude. What you want to get is the trust from the heart of others, just like the way the Zeng family and the Ye family get along with Wenyin, which is to exchange their hearts, that is, to treat you as a family, as a friend, trust you and support you.
This is not only what you should get as a woman, but also what you should get from everyone when you sit in that position with quan'er in the future.
Why does ma'am make us feel so close and willing to get along with her? Have you thought about that? ” Asked the mother.
”Madam, she is very kind. She always puts herself in other people's shoes...” Fang Xiyou thinks.
”You're right. You put yourself in other people's shoes. Only when you look straight at others, can you see each other's heart and enter each other's heart. ” Said the mother.
Fang Xiyou is in deep thought.
”Xiyou, you have always been excellent and good, and many people like you. However, how many of these people like you because you are you? I'm afraid that what they like is the name you represent, not you. ” Said the mother.
Fang Xiyou, looking at his mother.
Do you like me because I am me?
Fang Xiyou's heart stopped.
Shen Jianan?
However, she did not speak.
”You always worry about quan'er's liking of Gaines, but why does quan'er like Gaines? Because he doesn't feel estranged by Gayne. Gayne and he are equal. He knows that Gayne can understand him... ”His mother said.
”You didn't do it, did you?” Fang Xiyou said.
”Yes, that's why your father and I failed. I, like you, was very proud when I was young. I like your father very much. When I was young... ”Jiang Min said, with an unnatural smile on her face.
Fang Xiyou, stunned, looked at his mother.
Mother, like father?
”Your father was very handsome when he was young, even now. Moreover, he, how to say, has no airs and is easy to get close to. However, perhaps because he is such a person, he is not very special to anyone. I was quite proud at that time. Although your father is good in all aspects, as a girl, I hope he can take the initiative to like what I pursue... ”Mother said with a sigh.
”You've been waiting for my dad to bow?” Fang Xiyou was stunned and asked.
His mother nodded and sighed: ”it's really stupid to think about it. At that time, I waited for him to take the initiative. I knew I liked him very much, but I just couldn't open my mouth. One mouth was hurtful words...”
”I may have inherited it from you.” Fang Xiyou grinned bitterly.
”It seems so.” The mother sighed.
Fang Xiyou looks at his mother.
”Later, when I got married, your father was still like that, and he was not warm or cold to me. At that time, I didn't find out who he liked. Maybe, maybe what he liked and what moved him was Jinzhi! ” Jiang Min road.
Fang Xiyou was stunned and stared at his mother.
”You mean aunt Jin?” Fang Xiyou asked.
Mother nodded, said: ”at that time, not only your father, but also your father-in-law, and...” mother stopped, Fang Xiyou was shocked.
”They all like Jin Zhi. Jinzhi is also a very attractive person. She is a beautiful and smart girl. Really, I was shocked when I saw Jinzhi for the first time. I felt that she came out of the book and that she was a living Daiyu! That temperament, that appearance, that talent, really, if I were a man, I would like her, too. ” Jiang Min road.
”My father and they all like the type of aunt Jinzhi...” Fang Xiyou sighed.
”Yes, they do. But in the end, your father-in-law married her... ”Jiang Min said.
”Is this also the choice made by the last generation after weighing?” Fang Xiyou asked his mother.
Jiang Min nodded.
Fang Xi sighed for a long time.
”Your father, in fact, is a good man. After so many years, he remembers a summer snow. As for what he thinks of Jin, it's all in quan'er. ” Said the mother.
Fang Xiyou, no words.
”But, how to say, Jinzhi, she's excellent and perfect. Maybe it's because she's so perfect that people won't be easy to get close to her. Only in this way can we feel that she's standing far away, far away from people. She's beautiful in the woods.” Jiang Min road.
”She makes people have a sense of distance, but aunt Wen is easy to make people feel close. That's why my father-in-law likes aunt Wen so much, right?” Fang Xiyou asked.